Ulysses
May 15, 2008, 12:37 AM
Hi all! It's been a while since I last posted in a tread of my own... My original story "ended" here: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/closure-finally-83068.html
So it's kind of an update
Since there hasn't been any ex-related events or contacts, and I didn't have anything to share except for my self-absorbed state of woe (hehe) I actually had nothing to say... Neither I have now ))
Still, I am here to say the words of huge thankfulness and respect for all the people on the board who are helping out. Compassion and words of comfort, putting my particular situation into a realistic perspective, and an encouragement to man up and stay afloat was what I needed at the time. I guess I've come again for more... ))
So, like I said, I haven't heard from her since about this time last year. All in all, it's been 1,5 years since the bomb. I definitely feel much better now, no longer as bitter, sleep at nights, meet girls (though nothing serious) and occupy my free time over DAWs making squelchy house music in an ambition to get a subscription from Gigolo records)).
My point is I seem to become numb. I dont feel... Is it ok after 1.5 years? How do I work on myself to open up and start having affectionate feelings? So far, my mind circulates about HER, my ex... I need to take her out of my system!
PS doesn't seem like a formulated question, but I'd appreciate any input. Thanks!
So it's kind of an update
Since there hasn't been any ex-related events or contacts, and I didn't have anything to share except for my self-absorbed state of woe (hehe) I actually had nothing to say... Neither I have now ))
Still, I am here to say the words of huge thankfulness and respect for all the people on the board who are helping out. Compassion and words of comfort, putting my particular situation into a realistic perspective, and an encouragement to man up and stay afloat was what I needed at the time. I guess I've come again for more... ))
So, like I said, I haven't heard from her since about this time last year. All in all, it's been 1,5 years since the bomb. I definitely feel much better now, no longer as bitter, sleep at nights, meet girls (though nothing serious) and occupy my free time over DAWs making squelchy house music in an ambition to get a subscription from Gigolo records)).
My point is I seem to become numb. I dont feel... Is it ok after 1.5 years? How do I work on myself to open up and start having affectionate feelings? So far, my mind circulates about HER, my ex... I need to take her out of my system!
PS doesn't seem like a formulated question, but I'd appreciate any input. Thanks!