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yoursfriend2k2
May 14, 2008, 01:58 PM
It's around 2 years , I know her.
In the beginning we meet as a friend and both told each other while talking they want to go
For arrange marriage as their parents will not support for love marriage, both were clear about it.
I got senti and as she knew about it that I'm getting senti, she start making distance, but I told her that I love you but I wanted to be as a friend,I am sure that I can't go for love marriage even you accept my proposal.
Girl was ready to be as a friend.
We both meet on weekends and week days till one and half year, during this time she started loving me and proposed me.

But we never commit and keep meeting, but now she is ready to commit but I can't due to family problems.but still I want to have friendship forever...
I tell that I can't be without talking to you and she tells, she can't be with talking to me...

Now she told me not to talk to me...

But I need her friendship...

Otherwise difficult to stay in the same company as well as same city for me...

Need your suggestions...

brian1231
May 14, 2008, 03:56 PM
How old are you, and I am taking English is not your 1st language?

talaniman
May 14, 2008, 07:13 PM
This arranged marriage prevents this relationship from blooming so either go against your traditions and have everyone mad at you or cut seeing each other out. Is sex involved? If it is stop. Friends maybe later, but its to painful now.

yoursfriend2k2
May 15, 2008, 11:13 AM
28 year old... ya english is not my primary language!

liz28
May 15, 2008, 12:18 PM
She might not want to be friends with you any longer due to the feelings she has for you so maybe for the time being she's avoiding you.

I know she's your friend but she needs her space for now and if you're her true friend you will understand it and repect her wishes.

JBeaucaire
May 15, 2008, 03:16 PM
Approach her parents and ask to be put in the running as a future mate for their daughter, show them you are an excellent choice. Show them many ways you are excellent choice. In ways they think you are not an excellent choice, get better in those areas and ask again.