All right I have an ordeal here
My boyfriend ex girlfirend has been telling my friends things like he raped her and that he used to stalk her and he cheated on her and and he was just an overall to her and stuff like that now I didn't believe my friends and so I got her number and me and her started talking we went to the counsilars office and talked about it all today at school and eveything and she pretty much everything that he told me she did she said that he did it and I don't know he has never done anything wrong to me and we have been dating for 3 months and him and her dated for 3 years so I really don't know what to believe and who is lying and who is not any help?

Well let me get this straight...
You are dating this guy... and his ex is now saying that he raped her, etc...
So you went to her and talked to her and she's still saying that he did that stuff and she went out with him for 3 years.. he has never done anything to you or given you reason to wonder...

I think you should ask him closest friend if its true or if anything like that has every happened... tell him to be honest and that it is REALLY important he tells you the truth... see what he says then go talk to the counciller again but by yourself explain what you have found out. See what they say and go from there let me know what happens...