Hi well
I want to know if my ex girl still has feelings for me?
Well we broke up 9 months ago in agust
She left me for another guy
And well I don't know who the guy is but she is not with him I think I heard that the guy already had a girl friend
When we broke of I didn't want to talk to her no more so I didn't
But she will try to talk to me
My friends tell me that she use to keep staring at me when I had my back towards her in church
And well in feberuary she soposely got pist off at me because I ignored her in this place we went to and I didn't do it intentinaly
But she got really pist and kind of started telling my friends that I was a jerk and etc!
So time still pass bye and well she usually always tries to talk to me inside of church but not outside and well when she talks to me
She tries to make me lauph
She writes to me in Yahoo and well sometimes I write to her in a way so she doesn't write back but she will bring up another subject and talk to me and well
She tells one o f my best friends that she doesn't like me that she only likes me as a friend and etc!
She knows that I still love her because she ask my friend and my friend told her and she was like she fells bad for me and that she doesn't want to give me fallse illusions by talking to me outside church
But my question is she doesn't know my friend has told
But if she knows that she hurts me soposely when she talks to me why does she still talk to me in Yahoo? Kind of flurting with me
And when we are outside of church I try not to look at her
And well she told me by Yahoo that she has changed her way of being that she became nicer so I don't know what to think
And well last I heard she soposely likes this guy from las vegas
So
Why doesn't she stop talking to me so I at least have a chance to forget her :confused: :(

I guess if you really want to know how she feels talk to her about it directly, and if you don't want to talk to her and don't want her talking to you tell her.

This girl left you for another guy.
You don't owe her anything.. It shouldn't matter if she likes you or wants you back.
Do what is best for you - which is moving on.. I'm sure you want to be with someone who will treat you better.. and there are a lot of girls that can treat you better than this one.
She approaches you so she can keep you on a leash and you are available to her when she wants.. She sounds immature to me - so you should probably be cautious.
You did the right thing the first time around , not talking to her after she left you for someone else.. If she was in a relationship with someone else directly after she dumped you, and she saw that it didn't work and now she's back after you - then that means she hasn't had time alone to GROW or to CHANGE.. she is exactly the same person she was when she left you, the same person that cheated on you and left you for someone else.
Keep walking in the direction you were walking and don't look back.