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albinonerd13
May 9, 2008, 09:03 PM
There's this girl. She's really funny and nice and we have everything in common. I think I like, like her.

I do.

It's just, I don't think she likes me. Well, I don't know that for a fact, she does tell me that I'm nice and cool and that I have a lot in common with her, it's just that... I send her emails and messages like crazy, but she never responds. I think she thinks I'm kind of creepy for trying to communicate with her so often... it's just really hard not to overreact. I really want to, you know, have a steady relationship thing with her, it's just that I don't know how. Does she like me? If not, I want her to like me... would it be weird to try and win her over? :confused:

MommyLeah
May 9, 2008, 09:30 PM
Watch her body language around you. Does she try to be next to you a lot, does she touch you a lot? Like your arms or hug you a bunch? Those are not always signs of like but they are a good sign.Don't push too hard, just try to be friends first. Those can turn into the best relationships.

Bluerose
May 10, 2008, 11:54 AM
Stop emailing right now! You are creeping her out. You are going to screw up your chances. Set your sights on someone else - just as a distraction until you get it together around her. Time to be cool. Smile and chat to her but don't smother her. Get chatting to some other girls, she will get curious and begin to seek you out instead of the other way around. Good luck.

JBeaucaire
May 12, 2008, 12:26 AM
Emails and text messages have no tone, and no body language. Also, they're not real communication. Cut it out. Talk in person or on the phone only. That way you can HEAR tone and SEE body language.

No successful face-to-face or phone contact? Email/texts are even more a no-no in this situation.

Just stop using them for now.

nova225
May 13, 2008, 08:08 AM
Simply ask her out, and take it from there.