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ladieedee21
May 9, 2008, 07:24 PM
I was once a fun and hyper teenger with friends and family.. love doing stuff with them and always living good.. everyone knowz I'm crazy and you know just fun to hanq outt... and always keeping it real... but now everyone noticed that I'm not crazy... at sometimes I'm not..
Now I just keep thinking too much and stressing out.. just like that... there isn't an exactly reason why I'm being like this..
I think.. ive lost ma confiedence.. and thinking that I should just get out from where I am... have a little spacee...
Any advice..
plonak
May 9, 2008, 07:40 PM
First off I really can't understand half of what you're saying, is there anyway you can not type in slang? Sounds like (from what I could gather from the gibberish) is that you're dealing with depression.. you could also be bipolar.. where you're really happy and hyper one moment and the next you're really down.. see a doctor.. or counselor.. they can help decipher what's going on... don't be down on yourself though for this, tell your family that you need to get some help for your well being.. good luck
Fr_Chuck
May 9, 2008, 07:52 PM
Well if plonak understood 1/2 of what you said that is 99 percent more.
This is not a chat site nor is it a place for text talk. We perfer real english, ( and will forgive some bad spelling)
But you have to be yourself, not someone you are not for others.
ladieedee21
May 9, 2008, 07:55 PM
I just changed it.. it was written in slanqq... "plonak" now understood me by my english..
But I won't write any slangs... thank you
Fr_Chuck
May 9, 2008, 08:03 PM
Thank you, while some of the other teens may be "in" with you, also remember we have teens from dozens if not 100's of countries here from time to time also. Plus a lot of really old people like me who understand people but not always teens.
ladieedee21
May 10, 2008, 07:03 PM
Any other advices...
sallyasdf
May 11, 2008, 05:04 PM
Live for you, not for others. God made you like this for a reason, don't change yourself for others, your family loves you for you, your 'true friends' love you for you. Stay just the way that you are. Don't think what others will think when they see you. Its what you think when you see you.
ladieedee21
May 11, 2008, 07:06 PM
Thanks "salluasdf" I justt wish I couldd juss be my selff.. and hanqq out..
Be crazyy and alwayss happyy...
Brittney1515
May 11, 2008, 09:30 PM
I was once a fun and hyper teenger with friends and family..love doing stuff with them and always living good..everyone knowz im crazy and you know just fun to hanq outt...and always keeping it real...but now everyone noticed that im not crazy...at sometimes im not..
now i just keep thinking to much and stressing out..just like that...there isnt an exactly reason why im being like dis..
i think..ive lost ma confiedence..and thinking that i should just get out from where i am...have a little spacee...
any advice..
I don't really think I have an answer but I feel the same way as you do
Xrayman
May 11, 2008, 09:58 PM
No. Sorry I give up. Can't understand your code..
ladieedee21
May 12, 2008, 01:39 PM
Don't postt... if you don't know...
hamworld05
May 12, 2008, 05:04 PM
The "code" isn't at all complicated.
ladieedee21, do you play sports? If you don't, I'd give them a shot. The stress might go away, and you'll get a chance to be yourself.
ladieedee21
May 12, 2008, 05:16 PM
Yah Sometimes I play sports...
Ill try doing that too..
Xrayman
May 12, 2008, 05:31 PM
Dont postt...if you dont know....
If you want an answer, you need to ask clearly. Talking/writing in a way that may be difficult for some of us "Not down or jiggy wid it" or in a convoluted manner, will result in you perhaps missing out on getting an answer from a person who is genuinely trying to help you
Perhaps you might want to drop the 'tude...
Regards,
X
ladieedee21
May 12, 2008, 06:21 PM
I feel a little annoyed... just wrote that...
Sonador101
May 15, 2008, 09:57 AM
Here's what I think, I think your just going through a time in yourlife where everything is wacky, nothing feels right, and people just irritate you, I don't think this makes you bipolor I think it makes you a teenager, my advice is everyday take a walk BY YOURSELF, and everymorning no matter how you feel say "goodmorning everybody" trust me I am going through the same thing and this really helps.
ladieedee21
May 20, 2008, 05:11 PM
here's what i think, i think your just going through a time in yourlife where everything is wacky, nothing feels right, and people just irritate you, i don't think this makes you bipolor i think it makes you a teenager, my advice is everyday take a walk BY YOURSELF, and everymorning no matter how you feel say "goodmorning everybody" trust me i am going through the same thing and this really helps.
Hopefully.. us teenagerss are crazyy...
Mann we just think we have too much but we don't and sometimes I can't really put that through my head..
But yeah.. I think I will do thatt...
But out of curiousity, you are a teenager?
Ging1994
May 20, 2008, 08:42 PM
Try and do something your good at that'll bost your convidence
rockerchick_682
May 20, 2008, 09:03 PM
Sounds like you're just worrying about it too much. Be yourself. And don't let things get to you. Who cares what other people think?
Emma151
May 21, 2008, 07:23 AM
Email me
[email protected]
We are totally having the same problem!!
I'm going away to venice in 2 weeks and I need to loose weight
I feel so fat!
:)
ladieedee21
May 21, 2008, 07:56 AM
email me
[email protected]
we are totally having the same problem!!!
im going away to venice in 2 weeks and i need to loose weight
i feel so fat!
:)
gURLL justt eat right and excerise..
but doont starve yourselff cuzz den dah next time you eat bigg... dere is going to be a big huge gain on you..
so eat rightt and exercise 30 min everyday..
aighty... yahh... we'll make a change~!
=]]
Xrayman
May 21, 2008, 03:50 PM
Oh dear..
ladieedee21
May 21, 2008, 04:14 PM
oh dear..
Boy wad up wit datt...
Xrayman
May 21, 2008, 04:19 PM
Boy wad up wit datt....
Dis isss.
Ann stoppp dissin'
Speak/write with some sense, PLEASE.
Sum ov uss isn't Jiggy with it
ladieedee21
May 21, 2008, 04:21 PM
Dis isss.
ann stoppp dissin'
speak/write with some sense, PLEASE.
sum ov uss aint Jiggy wid it
Its sense.. Im not trying to do anything about it.
No this.. Nothing..
The rules are... you want to answer.. you answer.. if you got nothing to answer then don't write..
This is sense...
Xrayman
May 21, 2008, 04:30 PM
Perhaps, then if you pose a question and YOU are asking for help-wouldn't it make sense to ask properly-in English?
So the "rule" is, ask properly and then we can answer you to the best of our ability.
ladieedee21
May 21, 2008, 04:35 PM
Well then..
The rule is completed.
I did ask correctly with "English"and I even had great answers from others..
Look you don't want to answerr.. alright.. not my problemm.. just don't answerr..
Move on..
You don't understand the question.. dont post an answer..
Xrayman
May 21, 2008, 04:46 PM
Cool. You are on my ignore list-congratulations.
ladieedee21
May 21, 2008, 04:52 PM
I've alwayss dreamed of that.
ladieedee21
May 21, 2008, 04:54 PM
Dude your not listening to yourself. I posted a question for people to help me. You posted answer with no help. "Oh dear" That's like just words saying, "oh my God, no solution". I didn't get offended... Im not saying I care, no, I'm saying why did you post that anyway.
Answer if you know what to answer.. "Helping"
hamworld05
May 26, 2008, 03:53 PM
ladieedee21, I don't know if it's just me, but I feel like you're making us out to be dudes/dudettes who don't want to help. Sometimes, people need more information to help you out. For instance(let's say you're depressed and you want to deal with this depression). Someone might ask "Has anything happened recently?" While this may not directly be of assistance or "immediate assistance", it will help us "have an easier attempt at helping you." This is just an example.
There's also Spell Check. I blame the bad grammar(no offense, your grammar is SAT-material compared to how some of my relatives type) on education.
What I've noticed with "mild text speak" is that words tend to be written as what they sound like, only a little differently. E.g. "dere" for "there", "datt" for "that". The thing with "answering to the best of your ability" is to go beyond what you're comfortable with. The mild typing thing, for example. Let's say helicopters were flying around on the top of the building(I don't know why, just assume you're on the top of the building) and you were trying to help out a dude who said he was going to commit suicide but you can't hear him straight because of the flying helicopters. Are you going to quit on him because you can't hear 99% of what he's saying? No, you're going to walk further towards him(hoping he doesn't fall, of course) and try to understand him. Communication is the key. Understanding is the doorknob to help.
I suck with analogies.
rockerchick_682
May 26, 2008, 06:05 PM
There's a difference between:
I like, really really like this guy... and I don't know what to do... I'm not good at this... help plaez
And: I'm really interested in this guy at school, and I was wondering, does anyone have any tips on how to talk to guys?
ladieedee21
May 28, 2008, 02:47 PM
I suck with analogies.
Dude your excellent with that... Damnn... THanks...
=]]]
xxxlovecanhurtxxx
May 31, 2008, 07:21 PM
I was once a fun and hyper teenger with friends and family..love doing stuff with them and always living good..everyone knowz im crazy and you know just fun to hanq outt...and always keeping it real...but now everyone noticed that im not crazy...at sometimes im not..
now i just keep thinking to much and stressing out..just like that...there isnt an exactly reason why im being like dis..
i think..ive lost ma confiedence..and thinking that i should just get out from where i am...have a little spacee...
any advice..
I'm exactly the same these days. I beginnning to think it is just part of growing up. Like it's a phase. At we will get through it. But these are the times when you find out who your true friends are. So even though it seems like no good will come out of this. It really will. Just wait for the end in sight. You will get through this and come out happier than ever.
str33t punk
Jun 1, 2008, 04:20 PM
I did this last year. Judging by your name I'm guesing you're a girl. My advice would be to get a boyfriend. They will make you feel special and loved and they will compliment you and they will make you rememmber why you used to be crazy and you will want to do it some more