View Full Version : I want her back!
Trumpet Guy93
May 9, 2008, 12:32 PM
So my girl moved and we were still dating for a while. Then she came down here for prom and her mom found out that we were still a couple and told her that it had to end that wkend. SO we broke up but neither of us liked it. This was last weekend. So at the beginning I was telling her we should still date but keep it a secret but she didn't want to have to keep it a secret. She told me she still loved me though but she didn't want to have to keep us a secret. So even though we were dating she would still say I love you, call each other those lovey names and give me fake text kisses like we used to do when we were dating. Well yesterday some crap happened where she wanted to go to prom at her new skool to but her parents don't want her because they think she'll have sex do drugs blah blah blah. SO she was all pissed and taking it out on me and told me I couldn't call her baby or any other affection-it names and no more saying I love you and none of that. So I was txtn her this morning and she was telling me how she was just upset and taking it out on me and how she was sorry, so I asked if she meant what she said about the I love you and what not. She told me "Yea kinda I did because rich (her step father and the reason she had to move) will like ooberly flip if he sees them" I asked her how would he find out and she said "idk but we need to stop" I told her I didn't want to stop and then she says "but you need to. Sometimes it kinda bothers me anyway because I feel weird about it" I asked her what she meant and she responded "Idk it just kinda bothers me now" Then I said what do you mean and she says "Idk i just dont like it. It feels awkward to me" I told her but she says it back and then she said "Yea I know but i dont wanna nemore" Then she told me how she was trying to get over us and let go and I told her she promised she wouldn't let go or get over me even though we weren't dating and she said but she changed her mind. I know she still loves me she just doesn't want to lie to her parents help me, I want her back I love her too much to let her go now.
talaniman
May 9, 2008, 01:09 PM
The odds are so NOT in your favor. Sometimes there is no changing someone's mind, and you should respect her wishes, as it can't be fun at her house, while your in the picture. Parents can be so unfair. But they rule and you must respect them. They are looking out for there daughter, and know what teenage guys have on their mind. Sorry for your loss.
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Trumpet Guy93
May 12, 2008, 01:30 PM
The odds are so NOT in your favor. Sometimes there is no changing someones mind, and you should respect her wishes, as it can't be fun at her house, while your in the picture. Parents can be so unfair. But they rule and you must respect them. They are looking out for there daughter, and know what teenage guys have on their mind. Sorry for your loss.
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But I don't just want sex I truly love her
ISneezeFunny
May 12, 2008, 01:35 PM
You seem... ridiculously young... but you're talking about prom, so I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. I'm going to say... that this girl doesn't feel about you, the way you feel about her. This whole "parents" thing could be true, but the whole "she loves me, just doesn't want to lie" is a bit off. I think she's trying to move on, and you should too. My $0.02
talaniman
May 12, 2008, 01:52 PM
but I don't just want sex I truly love her
Based on what?
Trumpet Guy93
May 13, 2008, 11:58 AM
Based on what?
Her personality the way she makes me feel just everything about her
talaniman
May 13, 2008, 07:31 PM
How does she feel?
bigbird213
May 13, 2008, 08:14 PM
Based on the way you talk and your other posts you seem too young to be worried about all this stuff. It is pretty obvious that her parents don't want her involved with you, and at your age there isn't much she can do about it. If she is the same age as you, then you are going to have trouble getting her to rebel against her parents.
How long have you two been dating?
Why do her parents have an issue with you?