Long story short my girlfriend and I of 2 years are over. She broke it off 2 months agao. Soon after I questioned her love for me and she said of course that she loves me. Now she is unsure and I said what do you mean and she said people change. My question is is that possible, and what is the reason for her feelings to deminsh even though the obvious that we are over and have ben for 2 months, or is it just that she is unsure and time will only tell if she does. Does this mean she never really loved me or what someone help me here!

As we get to know people on a deeper level, our opinion of them can certainly change.

At first, it is the excitement of a new love, the infatuation and thrill can be overwhelming.

Then, as time goes by, and we start seeing the things that we were blind to during our infatuation stage, our feelings start to change as well.

Many times, especially if we rush things, we do fall into a feeling of love immediately. In reality, love takes a long time to bloom and does not occur in a matter of days or even weeks.

Also, the younger we are, the less we have experienced with relationships and the first few we get into are where we learn our lessons, to often the hard way.

She may be the one, she may not, only time will tell.

If she is not the one, the one for you is out there, and you will find her eventually.

I agree, well written thanks!

Young people mistake intense attractions for love all the time, and change their minds even more. The trick you will learn, is how to best cope with those feelings, without making an idiot of ourselves. All humans go through that learning experience.