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Wafita
May 6, 2008, 01:57 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, we faced lots of issues together and we passed it all and I know that we love each other to death, but we have been arguing a lot lately, and that hurted me a lot, because everything isn't the same naymore, I mean we stopped having fun we fight like every day, and so I asked for a break, and now I think he will break up with me. I just don't feel like losing him right now, I love him and its becoming crazy, I almost cry every single day..

JBeaucaire
May 6, 2008, 03:13 PM
Breaking up is the natural and inevitable result of 95% of all dating relationships. Remember that. You date many people in your life, hopefully to settle down permanently with only ONE guy. That takes patience.

That you love deeply is great. It means can. That you can acknowledge that over time you two just get worse and worse together is a sign of maturity, something you must not ignore. Good for you.

The only choice you really must face is whether you will be one of those girls that can only let go of a guy during a horrible, gut-wrenching, painful fighting breakup. Some people are that way. You don't have to be. Once you realize the guy you like/love right now isn't really going to work out long term, incompatible is the word I use (something that has nothing to do with feelings), once you realize it, you can be one of those rare good girls that can manage breakups without all the bloodshed. You might even manage to remain friends. Who knows?

Good luck, there are many exciting things waiting in your next date(s), don't put it off too long.