MysteriousGrl
May 6, 2008, 09:57 AM
Okay well a little history...
I met this guy(we'll just call him Brandon) and we were PERFECT I mean every detail about us complimented each other we got along great but the problem was we were young and immature and neither of us wanted serious relationships... Then I meet another great guy (we'll just call him Dave) he's amazing... we date for 5 years and now were engaged.. Through these 5 years I have remained best friends with Brandon and actually Dave and Brandon were very good friends also. Until I drank a little too much and had a one night fling with Brandon and felt so guilty I had to tell Dave. Dave ended up forgiving me after seeing how truly crushed I was that I did it... it was not like me at all... then I did not talk to Brandon for almost a year... One year after the friendship ended I found out Dave had been saying inappropriate things to another girl so I broke up with him. That night Brandon was having a few friends over.. much of them the same friends I hung out with.. so I went out there having not spoke to him in almost one year.. We talked and it was like nothing ever happened we hung out all night inseperatable... then I spent the night, actually I spent almost every night with him for a month, but Brandon has some issues so it was like I wouldn't talk to him for days then we didn't spend a moment about for weeks. After 6 months of this I began to talk to Dave again we started hanging out more. Every time I would hang out with Dave, Brandon would call and the other way around. Finally Brandon got fed up and just quit talking to me. I didn't talk to him for 5 months and during the 5 months Dave purposed to me. I love Dave and he's perfect for me and I know he will always be there and he would give me a great like but it's like he's my best friend and I don't want to hurt him but I just don't feel the chemistry. Brandon on the other hand I have sooo much chemistry with and we get along great it was like we were designed for each other. And the more I talk about marriage the less I think I want to marry Dave. I miss Brandon and think he could be the one for me but I want him to change and how would I ever get him to take me back. He's got to be mad at me I haven't talked to him in 5 months? Anyone with insight please help me I'm stuck!?
I met this guy(we'll just call him Brandon) and we were PERFECT I mean every detail about us complimented each other we got along great but the problem was we were young and immature and neither of us wanted serious relationships... Then I meet another great guy (we'll just call him Dave) he's amazing... we date for 5 years and now were engaged.. Through these 5 years I have remained best friends with Brandon and actually Dave and Brandon were very good friends also. Until I drank a little too much and had a one night fling with Brandon and felt so guilty I had to tell Dave. Dave ended up forgiving me after seeing how truly crushed I was that I did it... it was not like me at all... then I did not talk to Brandon for almost a year... One year after the friendship ended I found out Dave had been saying inappropriate things to another girl so I broke up with him. That night Brandon was having a few friends over.. much of them the same friends I hung out with.. so I went out there having not spoke to him in almost one year.. We talked and it was like nothing ever happened we hung out all night inseperatable... then I spent the night, actually I spent almost every night with him for a month, but Brandon has some issues so it was like I wouldn't talk to him for days then we didn't spend a moment about for weeks. After 6 months of this I began to talk to Dave again we started hanging out more. Every time I would hang out with Dave, Brandon would call and the other way around. Finally Brandon got fed up and just quit talking to me. I didn't talk to him for 5 months and during the 5 months Dave purposed to me. I love Dave and he's perfect for me and I know he will always be there and he would give me a great like but it's like he's my best friend and I don't want to hurt him but I just don't feel the chemistry. Brandon on the other hand I have sooo much chemistry with and we get along great it was like we were designed for each other. And the more I talk about marriage the less I think I want to marry Dave. I miss Brandon and think he could be the one for me but I want him to change and how would I ever get him to take me back. He's got to be mad at me I haven't talked to him in 5 months? Anyone with insight please help me I'm stuck!?