I said no to this really nice guy when I was 19;cos, I was not ready for a relationship then.but I really liked him; still do. We met only once eversince and I told him although I said no to you then, I really liked u... he simply said that he likes the way he is now.. and it may be a good thing I did, by saying no. He has had 2 girlfriends from the time he asked me out and I had one. We started talking online again couple of months ago(after 6 years).. (we already live in 2 countries)... I want to make this work this time, but I don't want to sound too needy..

Oh gosh, How about giving the local guys a try, as LDR's, are hard to maintain, and 2 countries is a long way off. Online friends make LOUSY lovers, and are even worse as dates.

Hehehhe... Cheers... But... I haven't felt like this for many guys!. and he is in the top of my list!.