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sallyasdf
May 5, 2008, 02:35 PM
My boyfriend always wants to hold hands. He wants to do it everywhere, he said that it was his way of letting people know that I am 'his girl'. He wants to do it 24/7, I love him, and I like to hold his hand but he tries to do it everywhere, on the way to classes, at lunch, outside. Don't get me wrong I like to do this to, just not this much... HELP?

Fr_Chuck
May 5, 2008, 03:12 PM
Tell him NO, tell him you like him and enjoy walking with him but that people can tell you are together because you are walking together.
Sounds like he is insecure and wants to make a show so that other boys will not come after you.
Can I assume you are both fairly young ?

mexicana12
May 8, 2008, 08:51 AM
Well then leave them and find someone else that doesn't like holding hands lol jkjk

Sorry I don't know what to tell I have never had a boyfriends I think you should just talk to him

JBeaucaire
May 8, 2008, 03:44 PM
Hands full. Keep hand with books on his side. If he switches sides, switch book hands at the same time absent-mindedly.

Reminder to you: You "date" someone to find out if you can stand being close to this person you already like. The longer you're around them, the more irritating things you will discover. That's the POINT. Don't ignore them. When the things that irritate outweigh the things that attract, move on.

And you don't have to wait until you two are miserable and hateful to break up, you can break up while you're still holding on to some friendship. Just keep that in mind.