OK first let me say that my girl has depression, mainly due to an abusive boyfriend about two years ago.

Well me and steph have been together for 5 months now and we have had our ups and downs, last sat night though we had a big bust up and things were said in the heat of the moment that were not meant at all, mainly by me.

I have since said sorry over and over again, reassuring her that I didn't mean anything that I said and that she was the best thing in my life. This was done over text as she wouldn't let me see her.

The thing is she would say its OK I forgive you one minute then tell me she doesn't know if we will work the next.

The other night she went out and got drunk and ended up kissin another guy, her best friends brother, she text me saying that it meant nothing and that doing that made her realise how much she loved me.

The next day I try to meet up but she doesn't want to know, she won't tell me its over, I've asked her too so that I can clear my head and start to move on, what should I do?

It sounds like she may never make up her mind. You could try saying unless she really wants to give it a go then you are going to start seeing other people. I would also let her know that if she really wants a relationship with you that she needs to put in 100% or you will move on. If she really has depression, maybe you should take her to get help and medication. It is not bad to have medication for something you can't control. It really does help to have the medication. It may help her to make a clear decision. If she stays with you and she get medication, you have to be there to make sure she always takes it. It will make both your lives a lot easier! Good luck on your decision!

Walk away! Keep your pride and dignity and leave this mind game playing witch alone! Don't feed into her desperate cries for attention and start with the No Contact, you will find a better girl who won't toy with your emotions

Zoo,

Great to talk to you my friend. Now the bad news. I think she's made up her mind and it's time for you to move forward.

Yea chuff your probably rite as always, started no contact today, learnt enough from the last girl I had that begging does nuttin but make you look like an idiot in the long run

yea chuff your probably rite as always, started no contact today, learnt enough from the last girl i had that beggin does nuttin but make you look like an idiot in the long run

Don't worry about it. I'm looking like an idiot right now as well, I've been NC for about a week after several start and stops. We must remain strong despite what they throw at us. I know you can do it, you've come to far to let one chick pull you back.