There's this guy... his name is T.J. he was my best friend all through elementary school... in 6th grade we dated and kissed and did some other stuff... and then he moved... he moved about 4 hours away and I haven't talked to him since 6th grade.. now I'm in 8th grade and lately he is all I can think about... I miss him sooo much and I wish he would move back! He was actually considering moving back, because Justin... another one of my guy friends who moved... and T.J.s best friend... was going to move back... but then justins parents said they would never talk to him again if he moved back... so he didn't move back... and neither did T.J. I'm going to see T.J. this summer... and I am debating whether I should make a move or not... its been along time since we dated but I still love him as much as I did then... should I try something??

Take pitty on me because I give the WORST advice: I did the same thing with my boyfriend but he didn't move four hours away... only 20 minutes. After he moved I did the same as you... but we never started dating until last August. You are obsessing and if you don't tell him you will hate yourself. My relationship started just like yours. If you obsess you will go NUTS!!

Before you make a move this summer, take it slow. It has been a long time and you two should get to know each other again then if he is the same guy (which he prob. Will be) then you should make a move. I will pray that you get your wish!!