I do like him and he likes me but I don't love him any more. How could I get HIM to break up with ME?:confused:

I do like him and he likes me but I dont love him any more. How could I get HIM to break up with ME?:confused:
If you don't want this relationship to go on
And you would rather him breaking up with you and you not with him...
Not to hurt him..

Try seeing him less.. by saying your busy A lot!
Try - turning off point.. do thinks he doesn't really llike.

Tell him you need a little space.. make him realise you don't love him anymore..

Staying with him will just hurt him more down the line.

if you dont want this relationship to go on
and you would rather him breaking up with you and you not with him...
not to hurt him..

try seeing him less.. by saying your busy ALot!
try - turning off point.. do thinks he doesnt really llike.

tell him u need a lil space.. make him realise you dont love him anymore..

staying with him will just hurt him more down the line.

That is what he does to me!! :(

If you don't want to be with him anymore then just fess up and tell him that.

Playing these games will just lead him on and tear him up more in the end.

Be honest.

Then defenatly talk to him and end it..
Doesn't sound like neither of you will keep putting effort or want this to keep going.

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Is this the same person...

If it is, you guys aren't dating - don't worry about it.

OK, I'm 57 - so a little slow...

You don't like him as much as you did anymore and wish he would break up with you.

When Dana1989 suggested that you try seeing him less and to tell him you need space to make him realize that you don't care for him as much... Did you answer back that this is what he is doing to you and adding a sad face??

Well, if this is the case, then you have nothing to worry about if you don't want to see him anymore. Just ignore his calls, forget him and make new friends.

If you are sad because he is the one 'busy' and needing space, then you still have a crush on him and don't like the way he is treating you. In this case, still ignore him and get over it because you cannot force him to change and respect you enough to make you feel better. He is going his way and it is best you go yours and find someone else to get to know and be close friends with.

You are still young and will probably have many more friends in the future before thinking of being serious about it and planning a life together.

It's OK to be upset about it, but that's just the way life is. We make friends and lose them and are sad for a while, but we all get over it and survive. So stop worrying and start enjoying your life again..

Go to an entertainment park, see a good movie, listen to some super music with friends - get your mind off this chapter in your life and keep on 'trucking'

Good luck dear.

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It sounds likd your both are on the same track and are avoiding each other so you have nothing to worry about. It just sounds like your both only having a liking to each other that's is do longer so leave it alone. If you really want or feel to make it official then you should tell him Your only 15 so maybe in the future your learn one main component of being with someone is communication, so don't be shy to speak your mind.Hopefully your doing in school and know that your not ready for something serious with anyone anyway because I read your last question and that's only because your young. Just be honest with whoever your dating and have fun and enjoy your teenage years because your never get it back.

Good luck!

He is already broken up with you by his actions, so all you have to do is move on, and as you have said in your other post, you have other options.

You shouldn't feel like you have to stay with him, just to make sure you will not hurt him.
Do what you think is best for you.
Obviously you don't feel the attraction anymore, move on...

To answer your questions:
He is a few years older than me,
I have met him in person,
And what exactly do you mean by slow?

To answer your questions:
He is a few years older than me,
I have met him in person,
And what exactly do you mean by slow?

And what exactly do you mean by slow??

If this is directed to my post, then here goes:

I have clients in different age-groups, and for some odd reason, most of the young ones seem to think just because I am an 'old woman' that I don't understand where they are 'coming from'. But this is normal because when I was your age, I thought my mom and grandmothers of my friends didn't know what they were talking about. As if we didn't have an inkling of how they could understand our feelings and growing pains. But guess what, we oldies have been there, done that, and have more experience under our belts than you could imagine. It's all in the attitude. And believe me, if the youth today would only take the time to talk to the older generation, they would notice that there is not much difference in the ways of the 'heart', growing up or hurting when rejected - oh and yes, we did talk about sex when we were younger too and had peer pressure just as you have today.

So, does that answer your question?

The only difference between us is that you are luckier today in learning about sex education, STDs and how to properly and safely protect yourselves against unwanted pregnancies too.

There is still no recipe for protecting the symptoms of heartaches though. That is something each generation has to learn to go through on their own. We can only relate our experiences and advise you as best as we can to help you avoid having your heart broken too often. But it will happen, so you might as well get used to it and learn from each mistake you make. That's how we got our experience and you are lucky that we freely share these with you to help make things easier.

In the end, it is your choice to either take our advice or not - at least you have someone to talk to in your hour of need - so consider yourself lucky.

Life is what you make of it, so chose wisely.


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