I really like this boy.
We were a couple for 9 months. Within those 9 months he said he was in love with me. And he told me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. And I really really like him. But in Feburay he told me that we should take a break for a while. Because we were fighting a lot. He said we were like glue we stuck right away and he really wants me to be the one he ends up with, but he says that's not going to happen when were fighting. So taking a break will make up miss each other then in a couple years when we get back together we won't fight and we will be in love even more. But I am afiard within that time he will find someone he likes even more then he will come to me and say I am sorry and all but we were young and didn't know whtat love was. I really like him and I know I am in love with him and I will hurt so much then if he did that. I don't know how to prevent him from doing that. I really want to end up with this guy but I just don't knowhow to do all this right.

You don't want to hear this, but there is a very real chance that he will meet someone else and end up with them instead. And that because you guys are young and you both have your entire lives ahead of you. You'll probably end up with someone else too. And if you guys fight now a few years apart isn't likely to magically fix anything. What's more likely to happen is both of you changing and just fighting over different things. There's only so much you can plan for the future so stop worrying about it and do your best to enjoy the present ;)

SOrry to say this, but its true. In a couple of years, both of your views on love will have changed and neither of you will like each other in the same way. THe most you can hope for in the present is to just be friends and care about one another.
Good luck!

When I was young I thought I knew what love was too, and nobody could tell me I didn't, it was different for me, I knew. Well honey, I didn't, boy oh boy I didn't, that doesn't mean that it didn't hurt though.

You are young, and although it's not impossible that you guys will end up with each other, it's not likely. If you are like the majority of people out there then this is your first love, you will move on and so will he. You will probably think that you are in love a few times before you find the "real" thing.

As for things you can do to prevent this from happening, well, nothing. He has a right to do what he wants with his life, and if he doesn't want you then there's nothing you can do about it.

You'll meet someone else, really you will.

Take care.

I think you need to talk to this guy. Tell him how much he really means to you, every detail. Then, ask him what you mean to him. See what he says. Also, make sure you are in love with him, and if you are, make sure you let him know. I hate to say this, but if you are apart for too long, you might start fading apart and forget about each other. You should tell him how badly you want to stay with him, and promise each other to make a good effort to not fight, and fix problems.

I did that the other night. He siad I have to trust him. That there is no one else as good as me.. its me and him. He knows how to express his words right. When we firdst broke up he wrote this letter that was saying if I ever thought for 1 second that he didn't love me well I was wrong because he loved me more then anything and thatwill never change. He would do anything for me ebcause he knows that I am his and he is mine.