View Full Version : Should I ask her out?
simplebowman
Apr 26, 2008, 10:54 PM
Okay, so I'm a guy and there's this girl in my class. I want to go out with her but I'm afraid that she'll say no. It would be akward in class. But if I don't take the chance pretty soon, I might never get to ask her.
Clough
Apr 27, 2008, 12:46 AM
Are there any groups that you might be able to get involved in that she is in also? If you were to join one of them, it might give the two of you a chance to get to know one another a little better and make asking her out easier for you to do. Just a thought for you...
volta-rewind
May 1, 2008, 03:36 PM
Hmm. .
Well has she given you any signs that she may like you?
If not, she may just be shy.
It's frightening not knowing isn't it?
But sometimes you have to take that risk.
It might turn out good, you'll never know.
Clough
May 1, 2008, 11:06 PM
Yes, you will never know until you try. You only fail if you fail to try!
kp2171
May 1, 2008, 11:13 PM
When I'm on my deathbed I won't care about the crap I tried and failed at... it'll be the things I failed to try thatll pi$$ me off.
Seriously.
Worst case scenario? She denies you and you get to stop wondering. Case closed.
Don't make me beg. I'm a guy, and its not pretty when a guy begs. So just take a leap and if it doesn't pan out... you took the leap. If you fall on your face, so what?
Honestly... what comes from her rejecting you? You are no worse of than before... except the wondering is gone. But what if she responds in kind?
There's still no guarantee... but seriously... in a man or a woman, there's nothing sexier than confidence.
So cowboy up and take a shot.
If it doesn't work out... well... welcome to humanity. Turns out you are mortal. So what?
Do it.
thegreatestviz
May 1, 2008, 11:15 PM
Well many solutions
Find out about her and what she likes..
Get to know her... dont just ask her out as a stranger
Talk to her and if you think you have some chances go 4 it
Don't rush
Take is easy and smooth... if you like her you may tell her but be careful what you say... since girls make visual impression in about 20 seconds and in 3 minutes of talking they know what you are looking for.
So watch it.
Tc
All de best
Adios
Viz
P.S.-if you get her.. there is nothing like it... if you don't.. she was never yours..