That80sGuy
Apr 23, 2008, 05:51 PM
I am currently in a really difficult situation and I don't know what to do about it
I had been in a serious relationship with a girl I originally met at work for around a year, when after visiting her family in Spain things went downhill really quickly and a month after returning she finished with me.
At this point she told me that the relationship had got to serious and she felt that I had much stronger feelings for her than she had for me. But she did however say that she felt we would get back together in time when she was ready.
Although we had split up we continued to sleep together most nights although we stopped all physical contact except holding each other as we slept.
About 6 months after this she told me that she didn't ever want to get back together and we stopped staying together and started to spend less and less time together.
I started to feel better about things and began showing an interest in other girls. She has now started to spend almost everyday with me again and invited me to go with her to visit her family again this summer. She has also started flirting with me again and refused to tell me that she doesn't still love me. Tonight I asked her if she wanted to get back together but she got angry and she told me no and that she doesn't have any romantic feelings for me and that she doesn't want me to get into a relationship with anyone else because she doesn't want to lose me as a friend.
This has left me really confused, I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her but really I don't know how she really feels and what to do.
Any advice would be really appreciated
I had been in a serious relationship with a girl I originally met at work for around a year, when after visiting her family in Spain things went downhill really quickly and a month after returning she finished with me.
At this point she told me that the relationship had got to serious and she felt that I had much stronger feelings for her than she had for me. But she did however say that she felt we would get back together in time when she was ready.
Although we had split up we continued to sleep together most nights although we stopped all physical contact except holding each other as we slept.
About 6 months after this she told me that she didn't ever want to get back together and we stopped staying together and started to spend less and less time together.
I started to feel better about things and began showing an interest in other girls. She has now started to spend almost everyday with me again and invited me to go with her to visit her family again this summer. She has also started flirting with me again and refused to tell me that she doesn't still love me. Tonight I asked her if she wanted to get back together but she got angry and she told me no and that she doesn't have any romantic feelings for me and that she doesn't want me to get into a relationship with anyone else because she doesn't want to lose me as a friend.
This has left me really confused, I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her but really I don't know how she really feels and what to do.
Any advice would be really appreciated