Ok she is nice but she can be the evilest of demons. Yesterday she told my dad that I told her the f word because she did not oick me uo from school, I had actually said "are you freakin serious!?" I explained it and to day she's being really grouchy and mean because apparently she doesn't believe me and is being evil. She has already made me cry last night and just now because she makes me feel unwanted and a burden and I think to myself wouldn't they be better off without me? What should I do? When she makes me feel like this, I don't hate her but I' m too crazy about her either. Im tired of crying.:(

Sweetie, how old are you? How long has she been your stepmom?

My advice is to talk to her and your father together and explain how you feel. Be calm and reasonable when you talk to them, don't accuse her of anything, just state your feelings like you did in your post. Sometimes it's hard being young, but you'll get through it, just be strong.

My advice is to hang on and if anything gets worse just have a privete talk with your daddy and maybe he can help just make sure your step mom isn't ezdropping on you because I bet she would do that OK EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE FINE OK!!

Treat her with more respect, then she has to lay off you. Avoid conflict and treat her as an acquaintance rather than a family member. If she is truly as bad as you say, she's not worth the effort. I've had this horrible woman in my life for nine years. I hate her, she hates me and my dad pays attention to her so she doesn't blow up and make the house atmosphere worse than it is. Just do your chores on time, don't talk back to her and make sure your parent knows how you feel about her. Don't complain or request anything, just make sure your mom or dad is aware of your relationship with her so that they can act accordingly.