View Full Version : What is the age for serious love
serena6878
Apr 21, 2008, 09:13 PM
Is 21 still too young for serious love?
Nothing happens in my life, but I am not confident on our young age.
Even people are older, they still someday get divorced. If someday I will do that, my relationship is meaningless now.
Is the best way to love a person not expressing love?
TrueFaith
Apr 21, 2008, 09:38 PM
First off the best way to love a person is to love them in your own special way, none of us are the same and we have to find the people that matches us. There's nothing wrong in the way we do things. Its how we find the people that will take us for who we are and love us. It's a dreamy thought I know :) but my view is there are 6 billion people on this small green blue thingy we call home,
Im sure there are at least one person that will match us :)
As for the serious age thing I would say it depends on the people that are in the relationship..
I know people that were together since they were 12.. and haven't split up since they were friends first then became a couple then all the rest that goes with it..
If the two people that are in the relationship want the same things and are understanding of each others feelings then age does not really have anything to do with it just the mental stage of the persons.
18 is when you can take things to the next level by law, but that's just sex and a relationship isn't about that.
After that its all up to you and how you and the other peroson feels :)
Regards
Alty
Apr 21, 2008, 09:45 PM
I agree with True Faith.
Love doesn't have an allowed age, it's either there or it isn't. I met my husband when we were both 19, we've been together for 18 years and are still very much in love. It depends on you and on him and on your relationship.
Good Luck.
talaniman
Apr 22, 2008, 11:02 AM
Its more maturity than age, and an ability to be willing, to take a chance on each other. The better you communicate and work together, the better chance you have of staying together. Sadly, we get blinded by intense feelings, and don't see the changes in our partner, or their feelings, until its to late, and we hold on much longer than we should.
mary lalsley
Apr 22, 2008, 11:55 AM
While this is the thing about love in this day there are not real love going on there are just playing love for less but 21yrs old is not the time to take to mine about long I do to know one because you still have milk behide your ears SO HOW YOU DOING