I really need some help. My ex broke up with me on the 16th of April, I am trying my best to cope with this. I am in school too and its so hard to focus. I am trying to not call him and see him, so that one day he realizes what he is missing now. I don't know if I scared him away, I want to hope for us to get back together, but he will be leaving for a year and I won't be in his area until next year. Everyone is telling me to move on with my life, but its so hard. I loved him and he didn't, he even told me. I am praying and just talking through this. But do you think he will come back, when he realizes that the girl who gave everything for me is gone? I don't know what to do? I know that to leave him alone is the best thing now, but its so hard for me to do that, when I always wanted to spend every minute with him :( .

Find other ways to fill your time. The year apart will be good. If you don't know exactly how to contact him where he'll be already, don't bother trying to find out. It will be too tempting then. I'm going to take a guess here, but you said you're still in school, so I'm thinking you're probably younger. Which means you have your entire life ahead of you. Enjoy it. If he doesn't love you, too bad, his loss. He may not ever realize it, but that doesn't matter. Go be happy. Have fun with your friends. Go out dancing, maybe you'll find a new guy ;) get involved in something, anything pretty much.

You say you gave everything. My guess is he took you for granted pretty much (even if he didn't show it). Find someone who deserves you. I doubt he will come back because some people NEVER realize what they had.

find other ways to fill your time. the year apart will be good. if you don't know exactly how to contact him where he'll be already, don't bother trying to find out. it will be too tempting then. i'm gonna take a guess here, but you said you're still in school, so i'm thinking you're probably younger. which means you have your entire life ahead of you. enjoy it. if he doesn't love you, too bad, his loss. he may not ever realize it, but that doesn't matter. go be happy. have fun with your friends. go out dancing, maybe you'll find a new guy ;) get involved in something, anything pretty much.


Hi thank you so much, best thing I can do is leave him alone. We both will be moving in 3 weeks, there is a banquet, we panned to go together after the break up. But in two weeks I don't feel better I may not go with him. But I don't know if it comes to that should I even go??
And one question still lingers, will he forget me? He did tell me no.. but its scary...
And wonder all the time will he call me when he leaves here?
Gosh its so hard!! Its funny how you love someone so much, and tried to do the right thing with love and now I have to leave him alone... ouch...

You say you gave everything. My guess is he took you for granted pretty much (even if he didn't show it). Find someone who deserves you. I doubt he will come back because some people NEVER realize what they had.


Thanks so much, its so hard to hear it when you said I doubt he will come back, ouch... but I guess I had to hear it. Right now all I want is him... but hopefully by giving him his space, he may or may not come back.. In gods name, its all up to him. I just want to be happy and I want him to be happy as well...