I broke up with my boyfriend because I stopped having the feelings I did at the beginning but after we broke up he was so upset but now that I think about I still love him and I'm happy because he has a girlfriend but I haven't told anyone how I feel this is the first time I've let it out and I just need help getting over him and figuring out what's wrong with me.

Life happens, we make mistakes and in the end we have to move on with life. So you try to stop having contact with the other person and try to move on.

Thanks and I'll try but we go to the same school so it might be hard

Sometimes after a break up we forget the reasons we ended it in the first place... you may be remembering all the good stuff now. Just give it a little bit of time, see how you feel in a few weeks, see if you really do like him and miss him or if you're just bored and want him back. And decide what to do then. Good luck!

You decided to break it off and now that he has a girlfriend your feeling jealous and want him back. I bet, that if he did not have a girlfriend you would not feel like you want him back. Am I right?

Well you need to move on, like you did when you first broke up. Remind yourself the reasons you did break up and focus on school.

I agree with maria that often we romanticize the good times and forget why we even broke up. From now on remember that love is a commitment to someone you really want to be with and not an emotional feeling that you go by. Often even in the best of relationships we go through dry spells where we wonder why we are with someone because the emotion and spark isn't always there. So you have to consider the compatibility and the commitment more than emotion.

I think Joe hit it on the head, you changed your mind about when he got a g/f. Just move on with your own life.