So I was reading some old topics on this forum, and I've talked to people about this before, but I've never met anybody else who can do it, or get a good answer on exactly how I'm doing it. It's not that I can control my climax, but I can control my ejaculation. I still have a full-fledged orgasm, and if I stop the ejaculation it's more intense, but if I ask my partner for 30-45 seconds to catch my breath, I can continue, and repeat sometimes around 3 times.

Like normal, round 2 always lasts longer, and is easier to regulate climax. The way I do it is when I know I'm going to "come" I (for lack of a better term) flex my manhood, similar to pushing out the last few drops of pee when you go to the bathroom. I have done this for awhile, like years, and actually exercise the muscles when I'm just sitting around. I can have an orgasm, and literally have no ejaculation.

Am I a freak? Or... did I just get lucky and learn a sweet trick?

A lot of men can control ejaculation. The controversy is: in male sexuality, is orgasm the same as ejaculation or can a man have an orgasm without ejaculating or ejaculate without having an orgasm.

I think that most men would say that orgasm and ejaculation are the same. Pulsing and pushing the ejaculate matter out and the pleasure of that.

The male genital system is far simpler than the female system. I know about the female system. :)

I would be curious to know if any men could separate orgasm from ejaculating...

They can. Separate orgasm from ejaculation, I mean.

Bravo! You are way ahead of most men in that department. Of course most of the men who have learned to do this are from asian countries, so you haven't met them, yet.