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gillian88
Feb 13, 2006, 09:12 PM
What does it mean when a guy who liked you for 2 years and was really nice to u, and who seemed to want to be with you wherever you went suddenly starts distancing himself from you a little, acts differently, and says to your friend cause you told her to ask, that he only "sees you as a friend"? Maybe, possible reasons as to why he's doing this?? Does he still haf 'some' feelings?

Note: &hez a really honest guy

talaniman
Feb 13, 2006, 10:47 PM
It means he likes you as a friend and doesn't feel about you the way you feel about him.At least he's being honest and not playing you for a fool which really would break your heart now wouldn't it! So it is up to you to accept his feelings and direct your attention somewhere else.You sound young and it may hurt for a while but in the long run you'll be glad you did.:cool:

fredg
Feb 14, 2006, 09:54 AM
Hi,
I agree with the answer before mine.
He is telling you that he doesn't love you, but just might want to be friends.
He is ready to move on, and sometimes it hurts, but you probably will have to move on, too.
Time will help you find someone else to like or love.

DrJ
Feb 14, 2006, 12:17 PM
Hmmm... that's interesting. You say he has like you for 2 years. He wants to be around you and is always nice to you. Then, after TWO YEARS of this, he starts to distance himself from you a little, you are suddenly interested in him?? What's up with that? Why didn't you pursue it at any time within the past two years?? Im not surprised that NOW all he wants is your friendship... you have likely shown him that friendship is all YOU want since you never cared for the past two years.

I would say that you have missed the boat on this one...

Wildcat21
Feb 14, 2006, 03:38 PM
I bet you didn't act on it - you didn't like him - now that he doesn't like you - you like him.

You had your chance, you know blew it.

People want what they can't have - you had him... but didn't want him.

talaniman
Feb 14, 2006, 04:56 PM
Just a side note:there is nothing wrong with having friends you need them ,who else knows you and doesn't judge you,think about it, who else can you spill your guts to but... a friend!:cool: