OK I first met this girl when she had moved to my school. Right when I had seen her I knew she was the one. From that day on my love for her grew and grew. We became friends and started talking. I finnaly asked her out and she said that she had to think about it. So a couple of days went by and we kept talking and talking I asked her to the movies and she said yes I rwaly thought I had found the right girl. Well the time had come and she said no she didn't want to go out with me so I said OK. We where still friends though and I still loved her and wanted her. One day I went over her house and she had toled me that her and another guy (who is skinny and more atractive) had been over there house and that they had sex. I acted like it didn't bother me but when I went home that day I was crying all night. I know that he only wants to go out with her for sex but I want to go out with her because I really love her not because I want to do that stuff to her. Now I'm really upset and praying that they don't go out I really need some help what should I do?

... how old are you?

Obviously this girl doesn't know what she wants... I feel like even if you two get together, it won't bode well for you until she matures.

Be a friend and if and when their relationship crumbles she knows she has a shoulder to cry on and maybe she will see you were the better choice.

Be a friend and if and when their relationship crumbles she knows she has a shoulder to cry on and maybe she will see you were the better choice.
Thank you so much!