I met this guy about 2 months ago the minute our eyes locked we could not keep our hands off each other the first night we met we were intimate. We didn't just have sex it was like we were making love. Two weeks later he came and spent the weekend with me and my 6 year old. We still text and call each other every day but every time I try and plan something he says he hasn't planned that far ahead or ill lett you know. I care about and worry about him so much he never leaves my mind what should I do wait for him or forget him?? :confused:We are 2 totally different people his a goth that likes wearing spikes and drinking blood turns him on but he has said that he will not do that to me yet as I am not ready and he is trying to stop it.

What do you know about this guy? How old is he, does he have a job, or maybe a wife. There is a lot you need to find out about him before you want to get so serious about him. It is very possible that you were just a one night stand for a couple of times. Protect yourself, especially if you are going to continue to have sex with him.

He might feel that things happened too fast and he could be afraid that you want more to a relationship than he does so he might feel he has to avoid you.

Evidently you have no idea either or you wouldn't ask :( is or why is he pushing me away
A guy can feel comfortable talking to you texting but afraid you might want commitment.
Or he could be trying to quit what you just added before he feels okay with seeing you again.
Apparently you have no idea either.

To me he did push you away and as to why... He is not into you!

I think that you got intimate with him too fast so he doesn't see the need to see you again... he got it now its time to move on to the next and you should do the same thing to but next time give it a little more time before you get intimate with this dude. You might ask then why was he still texting me and calling me, that can be because he didn't want to outright hurt your feelings...

I don't think he is as thrilled with you, as you are with him. You want more from him, than he is going to give right now. And if your attitude is as bad in real life, as it is here, I don't blame him.