OK I like my teacher a lot I'm a gay female and I'm pretty sure she likes girls to she's always talking to me so I don't know if she likes me:(

Don't go their hun its wrong

It doesn't matter weather she likes you or not it is wrong

How old are you??

I'm 17 and I really like her I had dreams about her and I'm going to be of age in 4 months so I just can't turn my feelings off for her

It doesn't matter how old you are, she's your teacher!
A teacher and student CAN NOT have a relationship, it is illegal. I would advise you to leave her class, do not try anything with her. Teachers are there to teach, not fall in love with!

dont go their hun its wrong

it doesnt matter weather she likes you or not it is wrong

how old are you???

Ym I'm 17 years old about to be 18 in for months and I can't term my feelings off for her

It doesn't matter how old you are, she's your teacher!
A teacher and student CAN NOT have a relationship, it is illegal. I would advise you to leave her class, do not try anything with her. Teachers are there to teach, not fall in love with!




Okay I'm saying when I turn 18 and don't have the class with her

It doesn't matter if you are going to be of age or not she is your teacher and she is NOT aloud to cross that line she will get sacked and never be allowed to teach again do you understand and if you make a move and she nock's you back how are you going to feel,like you can't go to class,like you have to get revenge and say she tried it on with you,

Don't DO IT YOU WILL REGRET IT

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It doesnt matter if you are going to be of age or not she is your teacher and she is NOT aloud to cross that line she will get sacked and never be allowed to teach again do you understand and if you make a move and she nock's you back how are you going to feel,like you can't go to class,like you have to get revenge and say she tried it on with you,

DONT DO IT YOU WILL REGRET IT

Whatever I wouldn't ever make a move on her unless I'm out of skool or something but you don't understand I like her so much

Your 17 its acrush hun you will get over it when your 18 go out to agay bar find somebody your own age

your 17 its acrush hun you will get over it when your 18 go out to agay bar find somebody your own age


Its more than a crush she flirts with me to and I want her and only her its just so easy to say and not do

It doesn't matter if you make a move in or out of school! You have got to stop, you have got to find someone else! If you keep this up, she could loose her teaching license! Like Cookie Monster said, it's just a crush and it will go away! Believe us! You don't know love, and you need to enjoy that while you're young!
Think of it this way, if you care about her, transfer out of her class! Go to a school counsillor!

You are 17, you may think she is flirting, but she probably is not!

You are 17, you may think she is flirting, but she probably is not!



I know when people flirt with me

Okay, say she is. What she is doing is illegal. What you are doing is wrong! You can report it, and this will save her from losing her teaching degree, or you can play along. If you don't listen to us and go to her for love she will no longer be able to teach, ever! You will have your heart completely broken! You will also be looked at badly, other teachers will be very uncomfortable. If you wait till your 18, you will go to jail. You will have a criminal record for the rest of your life!
You came asking for our answers. We are all giving you the same answer! If you want what is best, just walk away from her!

Your going to get her in so much trouble hun please stay away it is a crush,if you like her that much you will stay away or you are going to give her a bad name ,she will lose her job she could lose friends,partner if she has 1,you will wreck her life and all because you have astupid little crush your willing to destroy everything she has

How chidish

im 17 and i really like her i had dreams about her and im going to be of age in 4 months so i just can't turn my feelings off for her
But you can keep them in your fantasies, because they are inapropriate.

i know when people flirt with me
That doesn't mean she wants to bed you, or have anything else with you. m
Maybe your getting carried away by the flirting, you think?

So what you had dreams about her I had a dream about the hunk that works in tesco once but I wouldn't say I had feelings for him

You sound like your obsessed with her and it is areal problem you need to get this sorted out and stay away from her before you make a fool of yourself and wreck her life

so what you had dreams about her i had a dream bout the hunk that works in tesco once but i wouldnt say i had feelings for him

you sound like your obsessed with her and it is areal problem you need to get this sorted out and stay away from her before you make a fool of yourself and wreck her life


I'm not going to stay away from her because she's a good friend but I never have made a move on her and probably never will I'm shy and when I turn 18 maybe something will happen you never know but it won't be me making the moves

Darlin, she's your teacher. I can't tell you how many teachers I had crushes on when I was in school... even professors in college.

But, bottom line, they are just in that "restricted" category. There are such things as absolutes. As much as society doesn't like it, there are things that just shouldn't be done. Taboos. Making a move on your teacher/your teacher making a move on you is TABOO.

A teacher knows when a student has a crush on them - I've taught, and believe me, I knew. Your teacher has chosen to teach because she loves it. Don't put her in a situation that will jeopardize not only her livelihood, but her dream job.

so what you had dreams about her i had a dream bout the hunk that works in tesco once but i wouldnt say i had feelings for him

you sound like your obsessed with her and it is areal problem you need to get this sorted out and stay away from her before you make a fool of yourself and wreck her life



I'm not in obessed with her OK that's in crazy you guys are taking this like to seriously I won't make a move on her and never will unless she does first and she can't go to jail if I'm 18 and too I wouldn't tell anyone what is going on if anything happened between us so so whatever it

Honey I think you have a bit of a crush. We have all been there. Heck, I am a teacher and I see kids with crushes on their teachers everyday. But the others are right, don't act on it. IF when you graduate and are no longer a student at your school you still feel the same way then talk to her. But, do not do it now. Wait. Don't put you or her in a situation that neither of you want to be in.

im not in obessed with her ok thats in crazy u guys are takin this like to seriously i wont make a move on her and never will unless she does first and she can't go to jail if im 18 and too i wouldnt tell anyone what is going on if anything happend between us so so whatever it

Honey- because she is a teacher she can get into trouble. You are a student- she is your superior, she holds a position of power over you. She can lose her job, her teaching license and she could go to jail.

Don't assume we don't understand strong attraction to a person we cannot be with. We can absolutely understand and have completely different opinions.

Also, while its true you cannot just turn off feelings, having feelings isn't justification enough. Its called self control. Don't think I haven't met women I've been attracted to since I married? Sure I have. Don't think my wife hasn't been propositioned by interested men that she thought were attractive? Sure she has. Having feelings that conflict with what you should do can be tough, but it isn't a good enough reason to justify actions.

OK... back to the topic at hand. It is a dangerous line that would be walked. I have taught at university and I actually did date a student who had been through classes in the dept I worked in. we dated after the classes were over.

In my case, it was unique in that I had also been a student at the school immediately prior to teaching. There were people in the classes I was friends with... in fact I had to give a good friend a non passing grade my first semester teaching, and then we went out for drinks after. So... I was younger than most teachers, and I was careful to not date while the student was in my class.

She was a little older than most students (young 20's, I was mid 20's) and I had no say over her grade or classes.

I can also tell you I had several students with big crushes on me during that time and it sounds like nice attention, but it can be uncomfortable. In one case I had to notify the dept that a student was making strong advances. No fun at all.

So... I can't slap your hands too hard, having crossed a line myself that most are uncomfortable about supporting. I can tell you there will be people who flirt with you and that's all. I can't get into your teachers head. She might be interested. She might like to flirt.

You are underage now. She's flirting with an underage student. I don't care if you are "legal" tomorrow or next year... the teacher is either showing brazen recklessness, or you are convincing yourself that there's more here than there is. Both are possible.

Personally, I think you need to suck it up, deal with your feelings, and not cross that line. Get used to the idea that you are going to be attracted to women the rest of your life that you may not be able to have a relationship with. It happens all the time. Some people unfortunately use "want" and "desire" as a means to justify bad decisions. Bad pattern.

There is no excuse for bad behavior, and blaming it on your feelings, is an excuse, that will not stop you from paying the consequences of your actions.

dont assume we dont understand strong attraction to a person we cannot be with. we can absolutely understand and have completely different opinions.

also, while its true you cannot just turn off feelings, having feelings isnt justification enough. its called self control. dont think i havent met women ive been attracted to since i married? sure i have. dont think my wife hasnt been propositioned by interested men that she thought were attractive? sure she has. having feelings that conflict with what you should do can be tough, but it isnt a good enough reason to justify actions.

ok... back to the topic at hand. it is a dangerous line that would be walked. i have taught at university and i actually did date a student who had been through classes in the dept i worked in. we dated after the classes were over.

in my case, it was unique in that i had also been a student at the school immediately prior to teaching. there were people in the classes i was friends with... in fact i had to give a good friend a non passing grade my first semester teaching, and then we went out for drinks after. so... i was younger than most teachers, and i was careful to not date while the student was in my class.

she was a little older than most students (young 20's, i was mid 20's) and i had no say over her grade or classes.

i can also tell you i had several students with big crushes on me during that time and it sounds like nice attention, but it can be uncomfortable. in one case i had to notify the dept that a student was making strong advances. no fun at all.

so... i can't slap your hands too hard, having crossed a line myself that most are uncomfortable about supporting. i can tell you there will be people who flirt with you and thats all. i can't get into your teachers head. she might be interested. she might like to flirt.

you are underage now. shes flirting with an underage student. i dont care if you are "legal" tomorrow or next year... the teacher is either showing brazen recklessness, or you are convincing yourself that theres more here than there is. both are possible.

personally, i think you need to suck it up, deal with your feelings, and not cross that line. get used to the idea that you are going to be attracted to women the rest of your life that you may not be able to have a relationship with. it happens all the time. some people unfortunately use "want" and "desire" as a means to justify bad decisions. bad pattern.


OK whatever I like older females I've been with older females as high as 34 but I would never want to see her career end because of me and but whatever happens, happened

If a 34 year old man was with a 17 year old girl hed be in jail.

Well if your not going to listen to what we think about the situation why did you post on hear if you wasn't willing in the first place??


Did you think all of us would tell you it was OK to get off with your teacher??

well if your not going to listen to what we think about the situation why did you post on hear if you wasn't willing in the first place????


did you think all of us would tell you it was ok to get off with your teacher???


I didn't even know what it was at first OK so this and you too

See how imature you are with your ''what ever's'' [[THE I DON'T GIVE A C**P WHAT YOU SAY TEENAGE LANGUAGE]]

It just shows your age and do you really think somebody of your teachers age [and your teacher] is going to want to be with you? When you act like a child

Your 17 not 10 so start acting 17 and realise this fantasy is not going to happen and move on with your life

Absolutely time to add a name to the ignore bin.

If you didn't want to hear what others had to say, don't ask the question. Grow up! Don't be mad at us, because we don't agree with your course of action, or attitude.

I agree with everyone here. You need to grow up and realize that life is not all about you. Besides, I would be shocked if anything would even happen with your teacher. It is a school girl crush. Like many things in childhood, it will pass and you will look back at this and see how your actions were wrong.

Uhhh She's Your Freakin Teacher. How Could You Have The Hots For An Old Girl? Ewe.

Jessica1414...

I have been in love with my teacher (twice, once at your age, second time when I were older).

I have had a relationship (my first) with my teacher (see my questions.)

As a tip for you: Those teachers that get involved with their students, are to greatest extent, those that do not care for rules. And it means... they will not care for you either.
So sad is the truth... When one is in love with the teacher, one automatically thinks "If he will be with me, it means, he likes me so much he risks his career for me." Be careful with this pitfall... it is no more than a trap... and when you get hurt, it will hurt A LOT LOT LOT more than if it was any other guy you were in love with.