I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months and he is a good guy. But he has a friend that is a girl in nj and he runs do there when she calls him and she needs him for something. Plus he SUCKS at kissing. Andy advice on what to do. Please help me.

Hey Shortyz, there is nothing to be confused about. Your are interested in a guy who has a female friend that he has a strong attachment to. This relationship whether its innocent or not, it shouldn't be. You have two choices.

1) Accept it.

2) End this relationship.

I would advise you to take option 2. Why? IF you ask him to tone down the relationship with his friend he will probably just say that you are jealous and get defensive. Also you have accepted the this situation and he would think that you want to change the game.

Stop calling him find someone that would place you higher on list of priorities.