There is this girl who likes this boy, she begs and pleads for the boy to take her back. But the boy doesn't want to take her back back because of what she did. Should he take her back?

It all depends on what she did!!

You need to give more info than that

That's up to the boy. Even if we say he should he doesn't have to, it's his life and he has a right to make decisions by himself.

She cheated on him with her ex

Well then he has a right to be upset and a right not to forgive her, doesn't he?

In the long run our opinion on what he should or shouldn't do doesn't matter, it's his decision and his alone.

Well I wouldn't take her back if I was in his shoes I tell her to go and bleep herself if she's done it once on him who's to say she won't do it again

If he takes her back he's just giving her permission to go and do it again

But that's myopinion only himself can choose if he's going to take her back or not like altenweg said

Don't take her back!

After reading your posts are you a young female with guy problems or what? You seem to know a lot of people with these problems, so fill me in.

Tal, I think she's just a bit bored and looking for some conversation, at least that's what I'm guessing based on her other questions. Her questions vary from guy/girl problems, girl/guy problems, to asking what certain words mean that would be very easy to Google. Just my opinion.

Come on Red, inquiring minds want to know, just curious.

If she wants some conversation theirs plenty of sites like persons.com or skype or tagged.com

What's with some of the new members latley they're not giving us much info so we can awnser their questions

If you've read Red's other questions you'll realize that she just wants a bit of attention, at least that's my opinion. I don't think she's really looking for answers, just a bit of human contact. I do agree with you that there are better places for her to go to get that, and maybe I'm wrong, maybe she really does need answers to the questions she's asking, but some of them just make me wonder what's really going on, because she could easily get the answers to most of her questions from a dictionary, or Google.

I'm not trying to be mean Red, and if you have a question and you really need our help that's what we're here for, but the questions you've asked so far don't have allot of merit, and sound a bit made up to me. Maybe that's why you don't give allot of info, maybe there isn't any to give?

I agree altenweg---they do sound abit made up and that's defanantly apossibilaity why theirs no info

I don't want attention, it just I can't find what I need on other internet sites

Lol thiers abillion or more sites on the net you go to Google type in what you want to find say that new planet you was asking about and press search and haypresto you'll get abig list of all the sites that has info about that planet lol lol

And maybe if you put more info in the Google box you mite find what your looking for

You can't find info on the internet about guys who wear earrings being gay, a word that means sibling sex, if spanking someone else's child is okay, whether two people can live together, have a baby, and not be married? Really?

From another post you stated that you are 22 years old, when I first started reading your questions I though you were most likely a child, not even a teen because the questions were very childlike in nature.

I just find it a little strange that you have so many questions about things that most people at the age of 22 already know or are able to look up on their own.

Once again, I don't mean to make you feel bad, I'm just wondering what's really going on here?

I think afew people are wondering what's going on

Some of it I am curious in, and I have read some of the sites and I wanted to know what other people say

I think what we're trying to say is that your questions aren't that serious. When it comes to relationship questions most of them are about people you know and the questions are a bit silly. When it comes to other things the questions are usually things that would be very easy to look up on the internet, incest is the only word for sibling sex, there is no other, and it would have been very easy to look up.

We're here if you have questions, we're here if you have concerns, but we aren't here to answer things that you could easily find out on your own. It's just a bit frustrating, and there are so many other people posting legitimate concerns that are being overlooked while we're busy answering questions that you could have researched on your own, with very little effort.

Once again, I don't want you to feel bad, just think before you post. Do you really need us to answer the question or can you look it up? Do you really want an opinion or are you just a bit bored? If you need us, we're here, that's why we joined this site, but there are allot of people that need our help more than you do, based on your questions.

Good Luck Red, and take care.

I wanted an opinion on what you should do in these situations, I was researching on something. And actually I didn't even know the word for sibling sex so that is why I asked.

Hey, Red, c'mon, you're already 26, not a kid to ask all the silly things. I just read all of your questions and I think you have a psycho problem, seriously! You can't seem to think on your own brain. I think you should find something to do rather than just this, if you know what I mean.

You're right, she is 26, not 22 like I thought. That's even worse.

Red, it's time to find a job and start living your life. Like I said before, if you ever have a real problem or a question that has merit then we're here, but so far your questions are just a bit odd for a 26 year old to be asking. Do you realize that?

Now Come On People No Need To Say She Has A Psycho Problem That's Not Fair And Not Nice

That's true, I wasn't agreeing to that I was agreeing that she's 26, not 22 like I thought. I honestly believe that she's just a bit bored. It's time to find some interests, get a job and go live life Red, you are young and should be going out and having fun, find your own boyfriend, get busy with life.

This is such a great community to be a part of, I can't blame anyone for trying to get in on it, but being honest, will make honest friends, for sure, so can we get the real facts?

Exactly Tal. That's one of the things that's bothering me too. What is the truth Red?

Opinion only, could be something to do with language barrier?

Maybe, that's a definite possibility. I just think we could help her more if we new what she's really looking for. Hopefully she'll shed some light on all this.

I said it was for something I waas researching.

Aren't what you guys doing trolling?

SO LET ME GET THIS RIGHT
Your researching something about siblings having sex,the new planet and relationships between father and son and relationship between a guy and a girl?? What are you doing writing a book

aren't what you guys doing trolling?
Naw, trolls are bad, we are good!

It was for a story I was writing,honestly, I use wikipedia to research some of my stuff but I just wanted a second opinion.

Don't take her back

That's fine, and if that's what you are looking for then maybe you should tell us that. Truth is that none of your questions give allot of detail, and that makes them very hard to answer correctly. If you are just researching something and want peoples opinions then maybe you should be posting in the Member discussions forum, you'll get more feedback that way. They way you've posted so far makes it seem that you are just looking for answers to other peoples problems and not willing to look things up on your own.

Good luck Red.

Sorry, I get nervous at typing on forums, I get toungue tied on what I want to say.

The member discussion forum here is the same as posting a question on the relationship forum or other. The member discussion forum is for things that you want to discuss that don't necessarily concern you personally, but that you are curious about. Like discussing something you read in the paper that you want others opinions on. This would be the best forum for you if all you are doing is research. I hope that explains it a bit better.

Thanks for your time!

Funny how I said what you doing writing a book and she comes out with a storey less that an hour after I put that why couldn't she tell us this 2or3 pages ago??

thanks for your time!

No problem.

aren't what you guys doing trolling?

My gut tells me that you are the one trolling. I think you are playing a silly game with all of us. We are here to try and help people if we can.

You are taking time away from the people who honestly need someone to talk to. Like a guy who's sibling has been murdered, or the mother who has lost her child, or the person who is on the brink of suicide! or the newborn pup that could have died yesterday. ( ;) Alty) Does that sit well with you when you could be researching in other ways?

If so, I know that I will by-pass any other questions asked by you, although I'm curious what you could possibly be doing research for? You seem to jump from one topic to another. Is it for a slightly demented comic book or something?

Never-the-less... I will get back to the people who really need someone to listen to them.

I am done with this topic.