Ok time for some pick me up news from workedtoohard. Unfortunately it is a story about a friend. But hey my time is coming (hopefully). I had a guy friend who dated this girl in high school for four years. They fought all the time and she left him and he was very upset. Anyway, ten years latter he married a girl SO MUCH hotter than the high school girlfriend. What happened to the high school girlfriend? She went into a theater ruitine and got gangbanged (literally) all the time by the other actors. So guess what? The high school girlfriend was DOING him a favor when she dumped him. Hopefully that is what we all learn is that it is for the best! Anyway, if I could just get it into my head that a new, better girl is out there, then I would mucho happy. The question is, what do you think of the positivity?

I think that story made me much happier about everything, thanks for sharing

Anyway, if I could just get it into my head that a new, better girl is out there, then I would mucho happy.
The only thing standing in the way of your happiness is you, so get out of your own way.

I'll just say that someone had his back, and someone will have yours too! ;)

Do you really think it is a happy ending? They loved in the past, neither of them would be glad to know another's misery if the love was real.

Do you really think it is a happy ending? They loved in the past, neither of them would be glad to know another's misery if the love was real.

Uhmm, what? The guys friend broke up with a high school g/f that he always fought with, and married a hot girl that I'm sure he loves! The point of the question I believe was this was something positive could possibly come out of that experience for him also.

What you said really didn't even make any sense.

I think it would make me sad to know that my ex was getting gangbanged.. even if it was in 10 years :(

I agree with you there for sure! I was just commenting on how things can work out for the best when people move on, and that "workedtohard" had other relationships to look forward to.

No woman deserves to be gang-banged EVER for ANY reason.

I appologize if that was what I implied. :)

The point is HE thought HE loved HIS high school girlfriend SO MUCH and after ten years he found EVEN better. I never said he was happy about his high school girlfriend being gangbanged. I used to think how bad I felt for him, but now I realize that it was for the best! "For the best" isn't just a phrase, it actually happens, that's another point. Some people here are so picky.

The point is HE thought HE loved HIS highschool girlfriend SO MUCH and after ten years he found EVEN better. I never said he was happy about his highschool girlfriend being gangbanged. I used to think how bad I felt for him, but now I realize that it was for the best! "For the best" isn't just a phrase, it actually happens, thats another point. Some people here are so picky.

Yes, that happens a lot. People read your answers and try to disect them! :rolleyes:

Good luck to you with your future relationships!