Growing up I always hoped my weird looking breasts just hadn't fully developed but I'm now 21 and they're still the same. I didn't realise there was a medical name for my problem but recently I've been looking into surgery and was told I had tubular breasts. It's not so much the breast that I'm worried about because they're very small anyway so the weird shape isn't so noticeable but I hate my puffy, sticky out areola. The correction however means I'd have to get an implant and I can't decide whether to go for it or not.

I hate looking at myself in the mirror and I always have to wear padded bras and bikinis to hide it but I could probably put up with that, it's just I am so embarresed by them that I've never been able to be topless around guys. I normally don't get close to guys on purpose so that it never gets to the point where they'd see me naked but all my friends are coupling up and I just feel so alone. I don't want to have to hide myself forever.

Should I have the surgery? And also what if guys then get put off by my fake boobs? I really just don't know what to do. Please help! :confused:

I'm sure you are overexagerating the situation and that your breasts don't look as weird as you think. You will be so more critical over your own body than any guy will be when looking at it. This might sound really odd but if you have a really close female friend who you trust and have been close to for a long time, perhaps ask her to take a look, and honestly tell you if they are noticeably bad. But seriously, surgery is expensive and painful and lasts forever - if you become comfortable with your breasts, then other people will be too - not everyone's perfect! Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.

Many men prefer natural breasts, still others like the man-made option. Since you can't know who you'll be with in the future, you can't worry about a strangers opinion. Any surgery holds serious risks that could endanger your life. Its up to you to decide if some counseling (for yourself esteem) or surgery would be the best option at this point. Work on making yourself happy and no matter what you look like, you'll find someone who sees you as a supermodel.

(trust me... I know ;))

p.s. I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder and surgery should be the LAST option.

Do the surgery, I am a guy and I think most guys like bigger one
Bye

After reading your question and looking up tubular breasts I realized my breasts are a not so bad version of the "deformity". Let me tell you a secret: breast men LOVE the large nipples. And I mean LOVE!! I have never had any complaints, but if it makes YOU feel better about yourself and gives you confidence, go for it! Just be careful and go to a reputable doctor. And it the "deformity" is more serious, I don't think anyone would fault you for having surgery, as breasts are a huge part of woman's identity, and there is always that desire to be "normal".
For the most part, most guys would be so happy to see you naked, they don't notice all those little tiny flaws that you think are so obvious.

Your decision should be based on what You want, not what you think guys want. If a guy is really into you and the relationship is based on how much you like each other then your breasts should not matter. If you think getting a breast job would help boost yourself esteem and confidence, then I would do it for that reason, and if any guys have a problem with you having the breast job, then they are just not understanding enough.

I believe if you are going to be in a relationship you should eventually be comfortable enough to talk about your breasts, weather you get the surgery or not.

I know its hard to figure out if a guy will be understanding or not, but to find out you have to put yourself out there a little bit, and not totally avoid being intimate. If you really like a guy and it gets to the intimate part of the relationship, maybe you can let him know you are sensitive about your breasts and until you are more comfortable you want to keep your bra on.

Either way I hope you find a way to become comfortable with yourself. The more comfortable you are with how you are shaped, the more comfortable a guy is going to be... they like confident women, and if your breasts are irregular, but you don't make a big deal out of it, then they won't either.

Best Wishes

should i have the surgery?? and also what if guys then get put off by my fake boobs? i really just don't know what to do. please help!! :confused:

I do hope that you decide NOT to go with surgery. I've been looking for a woman with tubular breasts, but that's a specialized category that just doesn't show up on dating sites... and I'm not about to ask any women in person. Still, I keep hoping that somehow I'll happen across that dream lover with ideal (for me) anatomy.

growing up i always hoped my weird looking breasts just hadn't fully developed but i'm now 21 and they're still the same. i didn't realise there was a medical name for my problem but recently i've been looking into surgery and was told i had tubular breasts. it's not so much the breast that i'm worried about becasue they're very small anyway so the weird shape isn't so noticable but i hate my puffy, sticky out areola. the correction however means i'd have to get an implant and i can't decide whether to go for it or not.

i hate looking at myself in the mirror and i always have to wear padded bras and bikinis to hide it but i could probably put up with that, it's just i am so embarresed by them that i've never been able to be topless around guys. i normally don't get close to guys on purpose so that it never gets to the point where they'd see me naked but all my friends are coupling up and i just feel so alone. i don't want to have to hide myself forever.

should i have the surgery?? and also what if guys then get put off by my fake boobs? i really just don't know what to do. please help!! :confused:

This is obviously effecting your self-esteem and potential relationships. If it causes you concern, make a consultation visit with a plastic surgeon and discuss it... or better yet, visit a few of them to get a few opinions. You will be able to see other women with a similar shape and their results. The work that is done, doesn't have to be obviously artificial. This may help you make a decision. Different men like different things, so base your decision on how YOU feel only.

... but i hate my puffy, sticky out areola. :

Puffy sticky out areola... a man's dream.

Beautiful I'm sure but that won't help your body image. Maybe just try to take a chance getting close to someone - the only way your confidence can go is up!

I know exactly how you feel! When I was growing up I thought my breasts would eventually fill out, at around 20 I realised this would never happen.

This has affected myself esteem and like you I've found myself running away from guys because I didn't want them to know.

After thinking about it for a while I went to docs, got referred and saw a plastic surgeon. He was awful and made me feel uncomfortable. I left the hospital in tears and never went back.

A few years down the line at 26 I've had a rethink and decided to start the whole process again. Today I went to see a plastic surgeon who recommended I have a two stage procedure involving expander implants (anyone ever heard of them? ). The first op will be in 4 months and the second up to six months later, depending on how things go.

For me this seems the best option. It's not about what guys make think, its about how I feel about myself. I think plastic surgery may not be for everyone and that's fair enough. But if its affecting you in such a big way it is something worth considering.

Is there anyone out there who's had corrective tubular breast surgery? I would really appreciate some advice.

Thanks

I was googling tubular breasts when I found your question. I read most of the comments and it seems as though everyone is just calling you insecure and not really understanding how having tubular breasts make someone feel.
I'm 19 and I have them. I always thought I had an issue with breast growth but it wasn't until this past summer that I finally googled what was specifically wrong (snoopy breasts... as they refer to them.. ) and it was a mix of relief that I wasn't alone and sadness that the only way to fix the problem is by getting breast implants.
I feel as though your question was written by me. I've had several boyfriends but never reached the point of intimacy where I let them go anywhere near my breasts... other than one boyfriend and after he saw my boobs (one of which is MUCH bigger than the other) he would neglect that one... the few times I allowed him to go anywhere near them he'd go for the nicer looking one... therefore making me even more insecure about it.
I thought that by my 20's I'd be happy with myself. I'd have confidence. But- I'm just like you.. I'm so tired of wearing padded bras and bikinis and never allowing any guy go near my boobs and having every guy who's tried- give me the lone "oh im sure they're beautiful..they look great from what i see"... little do they know it's all padded. I know the truth, it's ugly or at least it is to me =[

But, I also want to thank you for posting this message because it made me feel a bit better... I thought I was the only one who felt this way and was having issues with a lack of confidence around guys because of it.

I think that if you're that unhappy with your breasts and if you are seriously insecure about it- fix them. But fix them for yourself. Not for any guy because who knows if he'll appreciate it as much as you. But give yourself some time to think about it.. because, like everyone said, it's life changing and you don't want to be unhappy with your decision.

I do hope that you decide NOT to go with surgery. I've been looking for a woman with tubular breasts, but that's a specialized category that just doesn't show up on dating sites... and I'm not about to ask any women in person. Still, I keep hoping that somehow I'll happen across that dream lover with ideal (for me) anatomy.

Is that for real? Seriously? Hello dream guy... didn't think such a person existed! Haha

Wow, this is awesome that I found this. I'm only 14, but I HATE my breasts. My mom called my dad the other day and said that she had stumbled upon this condition, and that she thought I might have it. Now that I've found out what it is (I looked up pictures) I feel so much more relief. Honestly, I can't stand my breasts and I can't imagine living the rest of my life with them. I'm hoping that when I'm older I'll be able to get something done, because I'm not happy with them (and the websites say that they aren't going to get any better) so I say, if it makes you feel better, go for it.

I've had breast implants, I didn't have tubular breasts but I know what they look like.

This is for your confidence and self esteem, who cares if guys will be put off - and they won't be, trust me. Think of the actresses and models that men drool all over who've had implants... Christina Aguilera, Pamela Anderson... A breast is a breast. Whether it's filled with sillicon, saline, fat or tissue.

Yasres, what a stupid, waste-of-time comment. This is women's health board not the large boobies appreciation board.

I think you should have the surgery. It's effecting your relationships and causing you misery. You have so many options to choose from to create a natural look, I chose sillicon, 80% filled 300. I am between a C and a D cup. Unless you're planning a career as a swimwear model, go for the smaller sizes with a low profile.

Don't do it for anyone else but yourself. Good luck!

I had the surgery done 20 years ago for my tubular breasts (with puffed out areolas) and got silicone implants under the muscle and they looked really good. It was great until they got hard 5 years later. I had another surgery to replace the implants but had saline implants placed over the muscle. Then they got hard again 8 years after the second surgery. This time I decided to take them out. After going to numerous doctors who refused to do the surgery I finally found one who had experience with the removal and reconstruction procedure. They don't tell you what your breasts will look like if you take them out years later because you don't want them anymore. I had to get a lift during the surgery which left me with a scar across the base of each breast and completely around each areola. Now the areolas are not even in circumference. I have a slight dent above each breast where the hardened tissue had to be removed. I would not recommend breast implant surgery to anyone. It's never a one time thing. If you decide to do it plan on getting a surgery every 5 to 7 years as the implants wear out like old tires and will leak. I was told that there was only a 2% chance of hardening but its actually a much higher percentage at 8% according one study (who wants to be in the 8% and you don't know if you will be or not). If you ever want to remove them you will never look the same. I understand wanting to correct what they say is not normal but if I could do it over I would have left them alone or tried to find a doctor who could just do the surgery to reduce the puffy areola without implants. Doctors will push for the breast surgery because they make more money on it. They are making tons of money on implant surgery because you have to get it done over and over again.

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The doctor I saw for removal corrected fixed it so my areolas do not puff out anymore. Beware not all plastic surgeons are qualified to perform surgery on tubular breasts as the procedure is different and more complicated. They have to "drop your pocket" in your chest wall making room for the implants. About 12% of women who get breast implants have tubular breasts. 21% are re-operated on for various reasons. There are many risks: hardening, infection, loss of nipple sensation, rupture and scarring. Plus they don't feel natural because if you have tubular breasts you don't have much breast tissue so it's even more unnatural than others that get implants. I still don't have all the feeling in my nipples and now have scars. Think twice before you try to alter what nature gave you.

I also have tubular breasts. As a teenager, I thought they were growing weird because my underwire bras were too tight around the bottom, and I hoped they would eventually fill out. But, they didn't, and it took me having a baby and having a tough time producing enough milk for me to consult a lactation consultant who told me what the scoop was with my oddly shaped breasts. Mine are so obviously asymmetrical, my left is a full C and my right is barely a B! And the puffy nipples... ugh. I must say breastfeeding did help ease the puffiness a bit. I thought about surgery, but I want to keep them perfectly intact so I am able to breastfeed future children to the best of my natural ability. Maybe when I'm older and done having babies I'll think more about surgery.
Oh, and no guy ever noticed (well, never commented anyway) on the shape or asymmetry of them. And I found the perfect man, despite my weird boobs! Lol Good luck with your decision.

I had exact problem you did 15 years ago and got implants even though I didn't want them, I just wanted the shape changed. Well to change the shape the surgeon had to cut into the breast tissue thus cutting through nerves and guess at that result! I have almost no feeling left in both breasts and when I do have any feeling from them being touched, it is PAIN. I also now worry about them leaking and having to get them out which will then leave me with small AND numb breasts.

Obviously this may not happen to you, but we need to look harder at why as womyn we think we need this very invasive surgery done. PLEASE, if it IS for some man you may meet that will not like them, you KNOW they are not worth it. I have shown pics online of what my breasts used to look like to one boyfriend and he said no wonder you got them done and I thought, yes,, I had a feeling you would say that cause you are such a JERK!

I understand you wanting them to be different, as I did, in fact I was obsessed, but please don't rush into it and get ALL the facts, unlike I did. I would give ANYTHING to have what I used to have and have that great feeling back!

Forgot to add, what I think adds to womyn's insecurities about their breasts is the doctors calling them a DEFORMITY!! This is such BS. The boyfriend I had at the time of the surgery that I was nuts to do it as was the one before, both of whom had saw my naked breasts. If ONLY I had listened to them and not based my image of the perfect breasts on media and magazines.

AND if they are such "deformities" why do so many womyn have them? Thankfully you have the internet to see this which I did not at the time.

I was googling tubular breasts when I found your question. I read most of the comments and it seems as though everyone is just calling you insecure and not really understanding how having tubular breasts make someone feel.
I'm 19 and I have them. I always thought I had an issue with breast growth but it wasn't until this past summer that I finally googled what was specifically wrong (snoopy breasts...as they refer to them..) and it was a mix of relief that I wasn't alone and sadness that the only way to fix the problem is by getting breast implants.
I feel as though your question was written by me. I've had several boyfriends but never reached the point of intimacy where I let them go anywhere near my breasts....other than one boyfriend and after he saw my boobs (one of which is MUCH bigger than the other) he would neglect that one... the few times i allowed him to go anywhere near them he'd go for the nicer looking one...therefore making me even more insecure about it.
I thought that by my 20's I'd be happy with myself. I'd have confidence. but- I'm just like you.. I'm so tired of wearing padded bras and bikinis and never allowing any guy go near my boobs and having every guy whos tried- give me the lone "oh im sure they're beautiful..they look great from what i see"...little do they know it's all padded. I know the truth, it's ugly or at least it is to me =[

But, i also want to thank you for posting this message because it made me feel a bit better... i thought i was the only one who felt this way and was having issues with a lack of confidence around guys because of it.

I think that if you're that unhappy with your breasts and if you are seriously insecure about it- fix them. but fix them for yourself. not for any guy because who knows if he'll appreciate it as much as you. but give yourself some time to think about it..because, like everyone said, it's life changing and you dont wanna be unhappy with your decision.

I'd like to say thank you to the person that created this topic and to you, "LovelyBeauty". My boobs have always been like this and I'm 19 now. I had googled it before, but most people just said that breasts like that were common at certain stages and would round themselves out after puberty. I thought that maybe it's just take me longer than most girls since I hadn't started puberty until I was 14 anyway. I also dealt with problems with anorexia through most of my teen years. I'd seen lots of people on the internet saying that anorexia could also be a cause of it and that they'd probably round out eventually.
Lots of people recommended massaging my breasts to make them grow. Lots of people told me to just be happy with who I am and that I probably don't look as strange as I think I do. But I still felt like no one actually understood what I meant. The onlyway I can make my boobs look normal is by wearing a tight-fitted padded bra, and even then I basically nothing. When I take my bra off, I feel horrible and so ugly.
I've considered getting breast implants for a few years now. I always knew that if I ever actually did it I'd wait until I was in my twenties. I always worried that breast implants wouldn't be able to change the shape though, and the shape was without a doubt my main concern. My boobs are very small (32 A), but I wouldn't get a boob job if I had round breasts.
I've seen things online about them being able to make boobs like mine look more normal and larger and even change the nipple. I'm really considering doing it now, but still don't know...
I'm engaged to an amazing man that has never complained about my breasts. Yet I still really want it done. He even makes me want to do it less because he loves me so much for what I am no matter how strange a part of me may look.
Mostly, I still REALLY want it done though...

I don't know what to do. I just feel so horrible with them sometimes.

I'd like to say thank you to the person that created this topic and to you, "LovelyBeauty". My boobs have always been like this and I'm 19 now. I had googled it before, but most people just said that breasts like that were common at certain stages and would round themselves out after puberty. I thought that maybe it's just take me longer than most girls since I hadn't started puberty until I was 14 anyway. I also dealt with problems with anorexia through most of my teen years. I'd seen lots of people on the internet saying that anorexia could also be a cause of it and that they'd probably round out eventually.
Lots of people recommended massaging my breasts to make them grow. Lots of people told me to just be happy with who I am and that I probably don't look as strange as I think I do. But I still felt like no one actually understood what I meant. The onlyway I can make my boobs look normal is by wearing a tight-fitted padded bra, and even then I basically nothing. When I take my bra off, I feel horrible and so ugly.
I've considered getting breast implants for a few years now. I always knew that if I ever actually did it I'd wait until I was in my twenties. I always worried that breast implants wouldn't be able to change the shape though, and the shape was without a doubt my main concern. My boobs are very small (32 A), but I wouldn't get a boob job if I had round breasts.
I've seen things online about them being able to make boobs like mine look more normal and larger and even change the nipple. I'm really considering doing it now, but still don't know...
I'm engaged to an amazing man that has never complained about my breasts. Yet I still really want it done. He even makes me want to do it less because he loves me so much for what I am no matter how strange a part of me may look.
Mostly, I still REALLY want it done though...

I don't know what to do. I just feel so horrible with them sometimes.

I think that if it is really distressing you, then you should get it done.

But, and it's a big but. Get it done for the right reasons. Get it done for you, so that you feel better and more confident about yourself. Get it done so that you're more comfortable naked. Get it done because you want to be happier with your body. Get it done because there are so many other things you should be thinking about rather than obsessing over this.

Don't get it done because of what you think guys might think. Most of the time guys don't care if they're tubular, fake, small or large. Guys love breasts in any shape of form.

Lastly, do your research and get it done by someone that has lots of experience in these sorts of procedures. Good luck!

I'm 18 and not only do I have this deformity, but I also have hypoplasia in my other breast, meaning it failed to develop entirely. About two weeks ago, I met with a local surgeon who specializes in breast reconstruction. She told me about Tissue Expanders, which you might want to research. Essentially, what it is, is an implant with an injection port to inject salene as your skin expands to accommodate the growing breast. Now, maybe this is just exclusive to me, because I got hit with a double whammy in this case, but there are many more components involved than just inserting an implant. Don't forget nipple reconstruction. I don't want to crush your hopes but, and the surgeon will probably tell you this anyway, your breasts will never look perfectly normal. What you can do, is see if there is a specialized bra or mastectomy boutique and investigate the idea of a prosthetic. I have one and it's great. It's a good alternative to surgery. I also have tomophobia, which is a fear of surgeries.
Personally, I feel like this deformity is part of my character, and despite how much I hate it, and despite how often I look at myself and think "Jesus Christ. Who would want this?" I know that someday, someone will think I'm the most beautiful thing they've ever seen. I'm sure you'll find the same, regardless of your decision. Also, it makes a good test when dating. Don't you want someone who loves you for you?

Hey I am 18 and have tubular breasts I used to be really self conscious but now I'm not too bad. I used to hate them really detest them but there part of who I am there a part of me and any guy who can't get over the fact I have small tubular breasts isn't worth waiting for. I don't see them as a deformity its how I was supposed to be and to have a rare condition that isn't life threastning I can honestly say I am proud.

I have had them all my life I'm nt going to change them now, there is so much more pain and suffering going on and I don't want to sound awful or anything but they are just cosmetic.

Any guy hwho judges you on the size and shape of your breasts is so not worth your attention. Your 21 young and free enjoy life let matters sort themelves out.

I won't have surgery on mine I don't see the point but again it is your decision so put somethought into it and if you want to talk to me at any time just email me [email protected]

Hope this helps good luck xx

Hey I am 18 years old and I too have tubular breasts.

I found out I had the condition yesturday when watching embarressing bodies on c4 I then went onto the internet and did some research. Mine don't look as bad as the once on Google image but I know I have them as there is a big unnatural cleavege gap and the are long and tubular rather than round

In my opinion I don't want surgery, I say there part of me and if a guy don't like them then they are not worth my attention.

So far the lad I dated of a few month had no problem with them so yeah I was sef conscious about them and I thought I was not normal but now I'm happy with them there who I am and I'm used to them maybe later I might have a boob job but for now I'm happy... want anymore info just reply xx good luck

OK I went to the doctor today for the same problem. Guys do care about these things! I've always felt ashamed of my boobs for the way they look and the way I don't fit in my bras or bathing suit. The doctor I saw said women with tubular boobs are the perfect canidate for a breast augmentation. He also said only 10% of women have this problem. I was told that I will first have to have a breast lift, recover from it and then go back in for the implants and nipple reduction. May sound like a little much but can you really put a price on your confidence and self worth? For me personally it's the only option and I made my mind up when I was only 11 years old. So I hope you make a good decision and make yourself happy. Oh and by the way I'm only 20 so we're in the same age group. I'm also a mother and I'm going to do the silicone so it's more of a natural look.. so keep in mind that they can easily make them look natural and not make you look like a playmate.

I had Tubular Breast and yes I thought that by the time I turned 20 my breast would fill out and look somewhat normal to me, but that never happened. So at the age of 25 I decided to get breast implants because I felt very insecure about my breast, little did I know I had a Condition called "Tubular Breast" I was so relieved to find out that it was a condition and I was not crazy to think I had abnormal breast. I went ahead with the surgery and IT HAS BEEN THE BEST DECISION I HAVE EVER MADE. I didn't get surgery for a guy I had a boyfriend at the time who I am now engaged to. My breast are fabulous and my friends who didn't want me to get them done can't believe how great and natural they look (they want them now toooo:) I ended up getting a full C 450cc and I LOVE THEM! :) Good Luck! And remember if you're going to get surgery do it FOR YOU! Not for other people :)

Hi,

Don't listen to Yasres, he's an idiot. I am a stripper and have met more guys than he probably has, and often obviously my breasts are topic of conversation.

I have tubular breasts, not the most severe of cases, if I play with my nips for long enough or get cold they look almost normal, but I am very flat chested.

Before I started stripping I was 100% sure I wanted a boob job and that was how I was going to pay for it, 3/4 years later and I still haven't. In the 3/4 years of doing it I have had to chuck 2 glasses of wine over men being rude making comments about my boobs, but the other 100's/1000's men I have met have all said fair play for not getting a boob job and they find it attractive. They like girls who are confident, so if you really can't see your own beauty for YOURSELF then do it. But trust me do not do it for men to like them. It's all about you.

Stripping was how I found my confidence because it made me realise men love all different shapes and sizes. Okay yes some like them big but that is NOT most men. And to most it wouldn't matter about size.

But having tubular breasts I am most bothered about my shape, and have only just found out about tubular breasts actually being some sort of condition.

I think I will wait until after I have children until I have surgery. I love having small boobs, it suits me but I'd do anything to be able to change the shape without surgery!!

Your post is 2 years old so not sure if you will see this, would love to know if you got surgery though?

X

I think I have a fairly minor case of this. I had no idea it had a name I just thought they were kind of... pointy?

I don't like getting them out in daylight unless it is cold, 'nipple-on' makes them look way better!

Although I always thought I would love a boob-job, I think about how much money it would be and what else I could do/buy with that cash, and also I have a lot of sensation in my nips, I can't imagine losing it and I like to think guys find that more sexy than if I had great big numb boobs! Also I wouldn't like to have scars where people would be able to tell they were fake, defeats the object for me a bit.

What about filler injections? Anyone pondered this?

I am the same, when I'm cold my breasts look great and I don't care that they are small, I think if small boobs are good enough for super models then they're good enough for me, I actually like small ones anyway.

But it's just the darn shape and look of them when they are warm, which is unfortunate as obviously when making love you get HOT. So tits hang and so does my confidence, but have learned how to work with them, what angles look good and just to KEEP playing.

I told my partner about how I feel about my boobs and what they are (he doesn't like boob jobs) so needed to tell him that I'm thinking of getting one and why. He fully supports me even though he loves the way I am. All along when I was doing the pinching and massaging to keep them in shape when doing 'it', he thought I was playing with myself and found it erotic! So at least I covered it up well and didn't look insecure after all (I thought he would have guessed what I was doing? ). Aren't mens minds the funniest things haha.

Mandwhy I have never really heard of/looked into injections. I have a very wealthy friend who's father was a respected surgeon, and so even though retired is friends with other respectable surgeons, meaning I am lucky enough to have contact to a surgeon that will tell me 'dont' do it' if I don't need it or if it will make them worse. I've been warned by him that there are a lot of butchers out there who will do it either way just because they want the money. So in 3 months time when this surgeon is back from America I am getting a consultation!

My auntie has had a boob job and she says to anyone who wants one just do it. It has made her happier with herself.