Hello,
I need some advice because Iam very worried that my boyfriend may have cheated on me or has a certain secret that he hasn't mentioned.. Iam going to go straight to the point, I had oral sex the other day with him and a few days after sort of like blisters or painful pimples appeared on the inner part of my upper lip of my mouth.. also my inner cheeks kind of hurt so they may be some their as well not sure.. I asked him if it might be oral herpes or something but he told me and assure me that he doesn't have that cause he has never been with anyone else besides me.. he also mentioned that if it was oral herpes it would have been so painful that I couldn't even speak-he also added that it might be something that I ate that caused that breakout.. could it be that or do you think he is hidding something from me?:(
I am so confused-i recently did a urine and blood test and everything came out negative
Could those types of breakouts also be caused if the person wasn't clean enough down their? Or could a person get a blister in that area(downstairs) without having any other sexual contact or is that just transmitted by sexual contact? Help me out-iam kind of confused:confused:

Go to your doctor. Period.

Those kinds of sores could be any number of things, and your doctor will help you treat them.

Dear mimi,

I want you to go into your bathroom and look in the mirror. Then, open your mouth and see the sores. When you were a young girl, is this the kind of situation you envisioned for yourself from having a loving partner?

There is love and happiness in life waiting for you, not disease and abuse. Just make good decisions for yourself. :)

This could be a number of things, don't jump to conclusions until you have proof. Go to your doctor, let him/her have a look and maybe run some tests and then you'll have your answer. Until then, stop having sexual contact, and when you do find out you might want to reconsider what you are doing, and realize the consequences. You might be lucky this time, only tests will tell, either way it's time to either stop having sexual contact or start using protection. Good Luck.