jiguripuff
Mar 29, 2008, 11:14 PM
Hi, I'm new! I've been reading a lot of the threads here and I'm learning so much.
My ex broke up with me about 9 days ago after 3.5 years together, 2.5 of which we lived together. So 9 days ago out of the blue he told me that he wasn't happy being with me anymore because I wouldn't tell him about little things that bothered me about the relationship and his friends thought I was a . (Side note, I've supported him through a lot of crap and forgave him after he cheated on me) At first I instituted NC but he kept texting me about how sad he was so I eventually started talking to him again. Today he said that he felt that he was too young to be living with me (he's 25) and that maybe in a few months we could try dating again. So blah blah blah... I decided tonight that I would be instituting NC in order to get over him because I don't think I can wait around for him to maybe come back one day. I will work on myself and becoming a better person.
I was friends with my ex before we started going out and we made a deal before we went out that we would still be friends if we broke up. My questions is, will this affect the possibility of being friends later? (My previous ex and I eventually became friends after a year in which I was studying abroad.) Should I tell him that I won't be contacting him and not to contact me?
Thanks!
My ex broke up with me about 9 days ago after 3.5 years together, 2.5 of which we lived together. So 9 days ago out of the blue he told me that he wasn't happy being with me anymore because I wouldn't tell him about little things that bothered me about the relationship and his friends thought I was a . (Side note, I've supported him through a lot of crap and forgave him after he cheated on me) At first I instituted NC but he kept texting me about how sad he was so I eventually started talking to him again. Today he said that he felt that he was too young to be living with me (he's 25) and that maybe in a few months we could try dating again. So blah blah blah... I decided tonight that I would be instituting NC in order to get over him because I don't think I can wait around for him to maybe come back one day. I will work on myself and becoming a better person.
I was friends with my ex before we started going out and we made a deal before we went out that we would still be friends if we broke up. My questions is, will this affect the possibility of being friends later? (My previous ex and I eventually became friends after a year in which I was studying abroad.) Should I tell him that I won't be contacting him and not to contact me?
Thanks!