I met this guy about a month ago. He's an oncologist so he is VERY busy! We went out on a date a couple of weeks after meeting and the date went well. He was scheduled to have knee surgery the next day and said that he would be recovering for a while but that he would keep in touch. Well, 2 weeks went by and he finally called me and said that he would like to go out again with me sometime, but he was very busy and his kids were going to be in town for about 10 days. While his kids were in town, I ran into his friend that set us up and she said that he has been saying the nicest things about me -like "she's so nice! Thanks for setting us up, I've really enjoyed my time with her, she's really pretty etc..." Well, his kids left on Monday, and I haven't heard from him. Should I call him or should I let him approach me? I feel like he say's one thing but his actions say another. I know that he is crazy busy, but a phone call would be nice. Should I call him or is he really just not that interested? Any advice would be appreciated!:)

Leave a message on his machine and include some trivial piece of info like a good article you read and recommend he read, or a song that made you think of him and you're leaving a message. You get it. Nothing creepy, a little helpful "friend" info, and an idea for an upcoming outing... "great jazz festival next weekend...interested?"

I met this guy about a month ago. He's an oncologist so he is VERY busy! We went out on a date a couple of weeks after meeting and the date went well. He was scheduled to have knee surgery the next day and said that he would be recovering for a while but that he would keep in touch. Well, 2 weeks went by and he finally called me and said that he would like to go out again with me sometime, but he was very busy and his kids were going to be in town for about 10 days. While his kids were in town, I ran into his friend that set us up and she said that he has been saying the nicest things about me -like "she's so nice! Thanks for setting us up, I've really enjoyed my time with her, she's really pretty etc..." Well, his kids left on Monday, and I haven't heard from him. Should I call him or should I let him approach me? I feel like he say's one thing but his actions say another. I know that he is crazy busy, but a phone call would be nice. Should I call him or is he really just not that interested? Any advice would be appreciated!:)
I think you should give him a call but don't keep calling him as that be stalking and he think your being obsessive and that make him back off

We as women always think the man should chase us. If u like him then call since u stated he have a busy schedule. Leave a nice message if he don't answer now if he don't call u back in a few days then leave him alone, but remember guys have feelings too and he might be asking hisself the same question too, like why she did not call me yet and think your not interested.
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I agree with the persone above me!its okay to do some chasing lol it shows your interested only problem is when to know when it is enough chasing.. my advice is you should deff call him.Try asking the friend that set you guys up to make sure she told him you wanted another date,I hope I helped a..

Best of luck

Since it was 19 months ago, hopefully they DID call by now.

If he said he's interested to your friend, then he's probably interested. Give him a call on the phone- if he doesn't answer, leave him a voicemail and ask him to call back because you'd like to talk, or however you would say that. If he's really into you, he won't end your guys' relationship because of you calling him on the phone.

19 months people... this thread is 19 months old. Seriously... move on to another fresh thread. :)

Haha that's just funny, also just saw the outdated post. Yes Kimanne, let us know how about after 19 months?! Married by now? :P