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deth123
Mar 25, 2008, 09:06 PM
Me and my girlfriend are on a break since 2 nights ago
And last night we were talking
And she said that she wants to love me and that she wants us to work
But she also said that she doesn't feel something special between us
Even though she finds something special about me
And I guess this is making her feel that we arnt meant to be togeather
I have also found out from one of her friends that she feels lost

Should I ask her if the break is what she really wants and if it feels right for her?

Also this morning she told me her mum asked if she wanted me to come out with them and I asked her if she did want me to come out and she said that a silly question to ask.
What does she mean by that?

I really do feel something special about this girl
I've never felt anything like this with any body else
Never missed someone so much
Never felt like I needed them in my life
I love her and I need her
I want her back so bad

Should I ask her if the break feels right to her?
I know its not
And I don't think she does either

xiaocake
Mar 25, 2008, 09:16 PM
Young people don't know how to live a life cherishing what they already have had. What she said means she is immature to have a committed relationship now.
When it reaches the right age, people don't have to hardly find something special between people, and all they need is an ordinary family, a faithful spouse, and cute kids.

deth123
Mar 25, 2008, 09:22 PM
Young people don't know how to live a life cherishing what they already have had. What she said means she is immature to have a committed relationship now.
When it reaches the right age, people don't have to hardly find something special between people, and all they need is an ordinary family, a faithful spouse, and cute kids.

So what should I do?

ihatewestseneca
Mar 25, 2008, 09:33 PM
She wants a break, give it to her. Get reconnected to the guy you were before you met her. You need to break contact in case this break is permanent. And I hate to say it but most "breaks" lead to a break-up. And you don't need anyone... everyone is capable of being strong and independent.

Just cut all contact and back off for awhile, if she calls ignore her, she wanted a break, let her know what it means to go on one. Ignore her till she's pounding on you door saying she wants you back.

SJB1701E
Mar 25, 2008, 09:36 PM
I would give her space to figure things out. Just be supportive and don't "bug" her. Give her space and let her approach you. Don't hound her about the relationship If you talk, keep it pleasant and don't talk about the break unless she brings it up. Keep her laughing and just be happy. It'll help her clear her head to get her mind off it and it'll make you look better in her eyes by playing it cool and mature.

talaniman
Mar 26, 2008, 05:53 AM
I have to go with the rest of the fellows on this one. She asked for space, give her plenty of it, and focus on the things you enjoyed before she came along. She'll make up her own mind, so leave her alone to do just that.