I had a guy friend for 2 1/2 years never messed around and the first time we did I got pregnant. We moved in together because I wanted to work things out for my baby I hear he moved in so he wouldn't have to pay child support. After a year of him uncooperating I kicked him out. We are going on 7 mo separated he has made no effort to come back but says he misses us and wants to come back home. I told him for someone wanting to come home he is showing no effort and he still not showing any effort. Is it a guy thing, to not show feelings? Is it pride? Or does he just not care?

A real man would own up to his responsibilities and do what is right by his child and you. That may not mean getting back together with you but at least helping raise your child.