:confused: what os wrong with me i have been with my boyfrind year and 6months and i dont knw if i love him or not or of id care if we split up.

i feel like i love him when im happy and we are doing something but then when we argue about thingsan things that are pathetic like other girls hes stared at and things where hes going wrong like planning something an it turns out crap smetimes i pick a argument and i dont know why im doing this why would i if i loved him????

when we argue il always say i want us over iv had enough this will never change you never listn but then when im home i hink i love him but then il still gove him abuse in texts and im not arsed. whats wrong with me????

hes not a bad bf at al he took me to paros for v day its just nothing feels righ when im with him i feel maybe im missing outmn other blokes. when we arrange to do something its ruined anway coz wel argue about something or il turn after a few wines and accuse him ov looking at otha girls an stropping off.i feel sick becusae no matter how much i think abou this i can't find a answer on what i feel they change s fast. i blow hot n cold on him and start a argument. i dont really cry whn we argue at home either almost as ifi dont care.i neer used to be like this im scared of myself and why i dont no if i love him or not i mean it feels like inside it just wont push a answer out i feel like crying being sick. and my stomach ges tight when im thinking about it. wev had some lovely times but i think about all the bad the good i dont remember tha much. i dont knoe can anyone give me any ideas on what to do help please. or has anyone else felt like thisbefore????:confused:

All I can say hayley that if you carry on with the hot and cold and the abuse then he's going to give you the flick,theirs only so much anybody can take and ayear and 6months is a lot of hot,cold and abuse as I said earlyer you need to figure out why you are doing this,I no its when you have been drinking,try drinking something different it could be the wine or it could just be drinking all together it mite just not mix with you,as for him looking at other girls well you probably look at other fellas and think he's nice but you wouldn't do anything well that's what men do but it doesn't mean they are going to jump into bed with them when your back is turned,your paranoia has to stop before it ruins your relationship

:confused: what os wrong with me i have been with my boyfrind year and 6months and i dont knw if i love him or not or of id care if we split up.

i feel like i love him when im happy and we are doing something but then when we argue about thingsan things that are pathetic like other girls hes stared at and things where hes going wrong like planning something an it turns out crap smetimes i pick a argument and i dont know why im doing this why would i if i loved him????

when we argue il always say i want us over iv had enough this will never change you never listn but then when im home i hink i love him but then il still gove him abuse in texts and im not arsed. whats wrong with me????

hes not a bad bf at al he took me to paros for v day its just nothing feels righ when im with him i feel maybe im missing outmn other blokes. when we arrange to do something its ruined anway coz wel argue about something or il turn after a few wines and accuse him ov looking at otha girls an stropping off.i feel sick becusae no matter how much i think abou this i can't find a answer on what i feel they change s fast. i blow hot n cold on him and start a argument. i dont really cry whn we argue at home either almost as ifi dont care.i neer used to be like this im scared of myself and why i dont no if i love him or not i mean it feels like inside it just wont push a answer out i feel like crying being sick. and my stomach ges tight when im thinking about it. wev had some lovely times but i think about all the bad the good i dont remember tha much. i dont knoe can anyone give me any ideas on what to do help please. or has anyone else felt like thisbefore????:confused:
Ino but I don't understand why I am going hot and cold I don't even no if I love him or not. When I drink and argue ye its a lot worse arguing and then I hate him and tell him don't text me agen want us over. Ihe sayd he feels somethins when he hugs me and I don't feel that.
I want to and I want to love him I don't want to keep tellinmg him ilove him because I don't noi fi do. I don't really miss him either when I'm not with him. Il text him and can be awful to him duno if it could be attention seeking or am I I ll??

It sounds like you've lost the spark in your relationship,
You don't sound ill;
These things happen.
Have you talked to him about this?
Maybe it would help.