I told my boyfriend before we started to get deep in the relionship that I was a very jealous person he says I have nothing to w orry about but I feel the girls he pick on and stuff will get out of hand I have told him not to do it so much in front of me but he can't seem to help it and yes the girl I'm talking about is his cousin and I know what your thinking but they have sleeped together but it has been 6 to 7 years ago I feel like that he might have a better bond with her and one just kick me to the side..


That's what I feel that he is doing when I say they are flirting but he does not say that.
What can I do to make him understand what I feel when he deos this?

Talk to him... first of all... How does he act towards her, what is your definition of flirting? You have to becareful because jealousy can really take over and simple things could seem like very terrible things if you're jealous. My ex thought I was cheating on her with my suite mate, but all I do was talk about her all the time. Sadly I never found out she felt this way until as of late from another friend who told me about it. You have to be honest with him and have him tell you an honest truth. You cannot and must not hold his past against him... its not right. Did he sleep with her when he was with someone else? Or was he single... if he was single then leave it be.. if he was dating someone else and cheated on her.. then your concern should be taken seriously...