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blue_note028
Mar 21, 2008, 02:15 PM
I don't understand why guys never really like me. I think I'm somewhat pretty and people tell me that I'm very pretty. I have a good personality too. I'm likeable and fun, and I get along with mostly everyone. I'm really open-minded and not very picky. With this said, it just doesn't make sense that I never get noticed by anyone. I feel weird because there are a lot worse-off girls that always get attention, but I can never seem to get anything more that a buddy or two. It's not that I need a guy to validate me, I just feel left out or like something id wrong with me that I'm not aware of. I'm not fishing for compliments here, I just want to know what's going on, and what I can do to maybe fix it.

Thanks :)

Smoked
Mar 21, 2008, 02:20 PM
Have you considered that you may be liked by more then one of these guy friends? Have you tried to pursue any of them beyond that friendship?

PJFraser
Mar 21, 2008, 02:26 PM
Have you considered that you may be liked by more then one of these guy friends? Have you tried to pursue any of them beyond that friendship?

This is true. Maybe if you tried to hint at liking someone, you might be surprised.

JBeaucaire
Mar 21, 2008, 11:31 PM
You sure you're aware of all the boys that might have noticed you? You SURE? Some guys are shy about approaching girls. You SURE there's not someone out there with a little crush on you? You absolutely SURE?

liar2
Mar 22, 2008, 09:03 AM
Most times some girls look for the attention in the wrong places... And the guys who may really like them they may not be aware of that because there interest is else where. Maybe the type of guys attracted to you are not your type... N u may not give them the time of the day farless to observe that they are attracted to u..

Or it could be your approach to guys... Guys are attracted to women that does NOT act like "Just a friend" but someone wit a little mystery or seduction.. guys like challenge.