View Full Version : A Guy At Work!
XxBbAbE2210xX
Mar 21, 2008, 01:15 PM
I recently posted a question saying "i really like this guy at work!"
People might of read it! Well, today I asked someone to ask him if
He liked me or not and he said " 18 is a consideration!!"
What does this mean? If I was 18 or when I'm 18?:confused:
starfirefly
Mar 21, 2008, 01:17 PM
I believe if you were 18
nauticalstar420
Mar 21, 2008, 01:41 PM
It probably means he'd consider you if you were 18 :)
XxBbAbE2210xX
Mar 21, 2008, 01:44 PM
Well, I've been asking everyone at work and they think he means when I'm 18 so if I wait 7 months then I'll know for sure!
nauticalstar420
Mar 21, 2008, 01:47 PM
He's covering his own tracks to make sure he does not get into any trouble. That is actually a good thing; it sounds like he is cautious and probably trouble-free.
XxBbAbE2210xX
Mar 21, 2008, 01:51 PM
But does this mean that he likes me or not?
nauticalstar420
Mar 21, 2008, 01:53 PM
I think it means he likes you, he just wants to wait until you are 18 before he pursues anything. If he didn't like you, I think you would know it; he'd either tell you, or he'd show signs of it.
XxBbAbE2210xX
Mar 21, 2008, 01:55 PM
Wow! You have made me so much happier!!
So all I have to do is wait 7 months until I'm 18
And then I'll know! Yes?
nauticalstar420
Mar 21, 2008, 01:56 PM
When you turn 18, if he is still available or around, then yes you should know for sure if he likes you or not. :)
N0help4u
Mar 21, 2008, 02:14 PM
How old is he and what state do you live in?
Some states say a 17 yr old can date a 21 yr old.
XxBbAbE2210xX
Mar 22, 2008, 12:04 PM
We don't live in america! We live in england and it is allowed!
N0help4u
Mar 22, 2008, 12:05 PM
Then I have no idea why he made the comment ''if it is allowed''
Maybe you should ask him?
XxBbAbE2210xX
Mar 22, 2008, 12:54 PM
Well, there's a bit of a problem there! I am very shy and nervous around guys I really like and I don't think I have enough courage to ask him out!
N0help4u
Mar 22, 2008, 12:56 PM
Then looks like you may have to wait until you are 18
Some people go by personal rules they set.
Like some set a rule never to date co-workers, neighbors, friends brothers or sister, etc...
Maybe you could print out a page on it being okay and leave it on his desk or if you are comfortable enough friends with another worker you could possibly ask them to question him on that.
XxBbAbE2210xX
Mar 22, 2008, 12:59 PM
I want to ask him so much! Today I was told that he actually said that when I'm 18 he'd think about going out with me! That's a promising start but I still have to wait 7 months on a "think about going out with me"that means I could wait all that time and it may never happen anyway!!