View Full Version : When a guy stares into your eyes/at your face during sex.
Mar 20, 2008, 10:21 PM
Or during fooling around, do you think that means anything in terms of how attracted he is to you (physically)?
Mar 20, 2008, 10:32 PM
I think that making eye contact is another form of intimacy when a person is in love with someone. I also think that if a man looks into a woman's eyes while being intimate with her in whatever way, it's almost a certainty that he isn't thinking about anyone else except the woman with whom he is being intimate. I think that it depends on an individual basis as to whether it means the man might find a woman more or less attractive physically because of the eye contact that might be made.
Those are my thoughts on this anyway. Hopefully, others will come along to add theirs.
Mar 20, 2008, 10:42 PM
It is said that eyes are the windows to the soul. If a man looks deep into my eyes while kissing me (etc.), I would guess he is looking for my reactions to what is happening, for encouragement to go farther, and for approval. For instance, as the kissee, I could widen my eyes, squinch them, close them, smile so my eyes smile too, glare, look at him with eyes half closed, flutter my eyelashes, give butterfly kisses, and so on. Eyes are very expressive.
Mar 20, 2008, 11:08 PM
or during fooling around, do you think that means anything in terms of how attracted he is to you (physically)?
No it doesn't have anything to do with your attractiveness. Some people just prefer to close their eyes during sex. I personally think you can focus on more of the sensations when your eyes or closed. And others prefer to have their eyes open. And I personally close my eyes while having sex but I'm never thinking of anyone else but my boyfriend. So, if your man keeps his eyes shut I don't think that it is anything to be worried about. But if you are worried about your looks you shouldn't be because everyone is beautiful in their own way and your man should think so too.
Mar 20, 2008, 11:47 PM
Personally I think eye contact is fine but too much can be kind of creep like your in the zone he is in the zone and sometimes the faces aren't always the best and me personally I do not like too much eye contact. But it could very well be how much he likes you and wants to see you and all of you but still you see.
Mar 21, 2008, 05:39 PM
The time and place for some eye gazing is during foreplay... to cement the bond before the coupling; as part of the activities to build sexual tension to the max. By the time this happens, he had decided to lay you... if you are worrying how attractive you are, you are not in the moment. No chance for pleasure.
When having sexual intercourse, in many positions where men and women face each other, people's faces are too close to try to focus on their eyes... it's painful!!
The road to orgasmic bliss is an *all body experience*... vision sort of fades away. :D
Mar 21, 2008, 09:44 PM
I disagree that its unnatural to look into your lovers eyes in the throes of sex. I love to see my lovers eyes, taste her lips, and feel her hot breath at sexual peak, depending on whether its physically possible from the position.
But you aren't going to know whether his looking at you is a deeper love or a just sexual fetish. Don't read into it too much.
Better yet, be better assured of his true affections before he beds you.
Mar 22, 2008, 08:05 AM
Fwiw, I love that and I'm a guy. I try to get my girl to do it more often, when we are truly making love and going slow, but she says she would rather close her eyes and focus on how things feel...
Mar 25, 2008, 09:54 AM
My experience is that he always wants to look at my face while he is giving me oral sex. I believe it is to see the look on my face to determine how much pleasure he is giving me.
Mar 25, 2008, 09:57 AM
It's my own opinion, but I don't think it has to mean anything. Some people look, some people don't. If your lover closed his eyes during sex, it wouldn't necessarily mean he wasn't attracted to you.
Mar 25, 2008, 10:00 AM
mafiaangel180 agrees: lmao... that's when I like to tell 'em: Eyes on the road buddy!
Jul 18, 2011, 07:36 PM
I Believe that it intensifies your sexual experience to look into your lovers eyes during the act of sex. I think this blends mind, body and soul. AWESOME! The eyes are the window to the soul after all!
Jul 19, 2011, 07:28 AM
If they haven't figured out in 3 years what that specific guy meant, well... that relationship has more problems than we can help.
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