I have known my ex-fiance for 3 years. We started as friends and then developed into a relationship. We have had a rocky road, but stayed together. He was deployed in Aug. 2006 and came back home in November 2007. We broke up in Aug of 2007 because we argued each time we talked, he accused me of things I did not do, and he did not support job interests I had. So, I left him. I started hanging out with one of my guy friends which turned into a relationship. In November, he said he was a changed person and professed his ever dying love to me. I broke it off with the other guy because I realized I did not want to be with him. I believed my fiancé, we got engaged and set a wedding date for June 2008. He lives in North Carolina and I live in Ohio. About two weekends ago, he started avoiding my phone calls where he normally calls all the time. Then, he started doing things with his friends that he normally does not do. He started complaining about not going out at all and said maybe we are not right for each other. He said he was confused and needed time alone. I felt like something else was going on, so I asked one of his friends. My fiancé lied about going out with the guys one night and his friend told me he has been seeing someone else. Should I be concerned? Should I give hime time or run away and never look back? Please help me. I'm so heartbroken and depressed.

Picture a yoyo. Picture your face on the yoyo and the string in his hand.

Now picture him doing what yoyos do... that's your relationship.

Now picture yourself NOT being a yoyo. Picture you taking your picture off the yoyo. Picture yourself not someone's toy to push and pull at will.

Got the picture?

When the game being played on the field hurts you, you find another field and another game to play in.