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Andrea21
Mar 19, 2008, 12:43 PM
I have two children and I give up my parental rights to be with my boyfriend. Lately he has been wanting to know more about my past relationships with other people. I told him a deep secret that I never had revealed to anyone else. After that he wanted to leave me. Before I was with him I had my own place but I also gave that up.Now I'm homeless and heartbroken. My secret was that my children didn't have the same father. He looks at it like I've been lying to him for 3 yrs now. But no one else knows. It was something very personal that I had to overcome and I could only tell someone that I trusted with my life. Am I wrong? What's next?

Romefalls19
Mar 19, 2008, 01:07 PM
No you're not wrong at all. I really get angry when people try to indulge on their partners past when they aren't ready to hear the truth. If you can't handle the worst possible answer, then simply don't ask. What you did in your past does not involve him directly, so therefore he is out of line on this one. He asked the question, and you were honest with him. Honesty is a hard thing to come by these days with some people. Have you been telling him that they had the same father? If so, he has a point with lying, but still should not have jumped to such rash decisions that quickly. I'm sorry to hear this happened to you, but you will rebound and be far better than before. This I'm sure of