Hi could use some help, me and my woman seem to be arguing a lot when we get together she says she's tired of it I always get dramatic I sometimes am insecure of hoe much she loves me . Ilove her so much I just get really frustrated. She is insanley jealous
I think she loves her cats more then me . She's so beautiful I don't want to be with out her
She is 45 and I am 37. When she tells me she wants space I freak and don't give it to her
She says we have compatibilty problems .but her jelousy borders in insane I think .
Its not all her I have my issues too that I am working on
But its so haed for me not to contact her . That's were I feel I get insane I must of called her 6or 7 times today .she called me in the morning first up beat but I had dental surgery and woke in pain physical and emotional, Now I am feeling like going out of my skin
I know I need to just accept things the way they go and are but that's easier said then done

Any input is greatly appreciated:

Whether you like it or not, you must give her what she asked for, and stop being so stubborn. Your making it much worse.