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Mar 18, 2008, 05:09 AM
I am getting very confused. Eg of behavior from my partner is as follows: He will say I am ready 1/2 hour before we need to go , he may still be in the bath. This makes me get hot sweats, he says it non stop. We are going on a short holiday this week , and he has started already 'are you packed '... (this may not be well described behavior but it is rentless , morning, evening ). I should not shop, I buy items close to or out of date. I loose everything, nothing can be found because I lost or put it away Or threw or threw it in the bin. I do not know what I am doing. He goes through he bin and will say ' how did that get here' (this will be a recycling issue /if something is not in the recycled section).. My response would be to say ' why don't you ask it'
If I say I am looking after something his answer will be ' that is what I am afraid of'...
I made a horrible apple tart the other day ( I had not made one before and why not learn) when I said you have to experiment or it will never be correct his response was it would be cheaper to buy one ---
The sad thing is he is a really nice and good natured man. I really loved him, but now I am getting confused and feel as if I do not even like him. I have no interest in having sex , I do not want him to touch me. I THINK he is deliberately manipulating me even in the sex area. Somehow this is what he wants. I sense his actions are calculated. This is sad , can I fight back what ever the problem -- We know each other a long time. There has always been this element. But recently has become very obvious. I know I am not perfect and it is very difficult to ask a complicated question in a short space . How do I stop this ,
If I say I am looking after something his answer will be ' that is what I am afraid of'...
I made a horrible apple tart the other day ( I had not made one before and why not learn) when I said you have to experiment or it will never be correct his response was it would be cheaper to buy one ---
The sad thing is he is a really nice and good natured man. I really loved him, but now I am getting confused and feel as if I do not even like him. I have no interest in having sex , I do not want him to touch me. I THINK he is deliberately manipulating me even in the sex area. Somehow this is what he wants. I sense his actions are calculated. This is sad , can I fight back what ever the problem -- We know each other a long time. There has always been this element. But recently has become very obvious. I know I am not perfect and it is very difficult to ask a complicated question in a short space . How do I stop this ,