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kt123456
Mar 17, 2008, 02:52 AM
Hi everyone my name is kt and I'm in year 12. This year I've felt like life seems to be getting worse. I suffer from stomach problems so this limits what I can do with my social life and since I didn't go on school camp I feel like my frineds and even best friends don't want to be around me at the moment and I don't no y? I can't help being sick and I hate it more then anytin in the world because I don't no how I will deal with it next year when I'm out. So I'm wondering guys what would you do in my situation I'm caring and fun person and everyone used to be my friend now it gone. I feel real depressed at the moment crying every night and I never used to cry. Everyone is passing me by and I just want to be up with them. It feels like I'm constantly being shrugged off!

firmbeliever
Mar 17, 2008, 03:15 AM
Hi Kt,
Do you have hobbies?
Anything connected to art?or Crafts?Something you could do while sitting in one place?
Scrapbooking?

kt123456
Mar 17, 2008, 03:16 AM
Hi Kt,
do you have hobbies?
Anything connected to art?or Crafts?Something you could do while sitting in one place?
Scrapbooking?
I enjoy sport like hockey and surfing love the beach. And currently doing the musical for school

firmbeliever
Mar 17, 2008, 03:18 AM
WOw..
But are you able to do them while you have stomach problems?

kt123456
Mar 17, 2008, 03:20 AM
WOw..
But are you able to do them while you have stomach problems?
Well I have had it for like the last 2 years so u have to try n overcome it but yes it is realli hard.

firmbeliever
Mar 17, 2008, 03:34 AM
It must be so hard for you being so sporty and not being able to do them.
Don't worry though, until it gets better there is so much more you can do with your friends.

I wasn't the outgoing type when I was your age, I liked the beach too,but not very much into sports.
I like paper crafts and art type hobbies and I could recommend some for you to try.
It can be something you can do with your friends.
Take them along with you to the beach and plan craft projects which everyone can do and you can lead them (or if you have a friend who is good at crafts could help you learn).

You could all collect different things(sand dollars,drift wood,shells,sand etc )from the beach and create beautiful things,which you could use to decorate rooms,or gift to people on occasions.
Easy Crafts - Fun Projects and Activity Ideas for Children: Beach Crafts - Fun and creative ideas using the Beach Theme (http://ezcraftsforkids.blogspot.com/2008/01/beach-crafts-fun-and-creative-ideas.html)

Gift ideas: unique, homemade beach souvineers. (http://www.essortment.com/hobbies/giftideasuniqu_sysz.htm)

Hope you will have a look at the links and find something for you to enjoy with your friends.

kt123456
Mar 17, 2008, 03:48 AM
It must be so hard for you being so sporty and not being able to do them.
Dont worry though, until it gets better there is so much more you can do with your friends.

I wasnt the outgoing type when I was your age, I liked the beach too,but not very much into sports.
I like paper crafts and art type hobbies and I could recommend some for you to try.
It can be something you can do with your friends.
Take them along with you to the beach and plan craft projects which everyone can do and you can lead them (or if you have a friend who is good at crafts could help you learn).

You could all collect different things(sand dollars,drift wood,shells,sand etc )from the beach and create beautiful things,which you could use to decorate rooms,or gift to people on occasions.
Easy Crafts - Fun Projects and Activity Ideas for Children: Beach Crafts - Fun and creative ideas using the Beach Theme (http://ezcraftsforkids.blogspot.com/2008/01/beach-crafts-fun-and-creative-ideas.html)

Gift ideas: unique, homemade beach souvineers. (http://www.essortment.com/hobbies/giftideasuniqu_sysz.htm)

Hope you will have a look at the links and find something for you to enjoy with your friends.

Thanks heaps for the support

firmbeliever
Mar 17, 2008, 03:53 AM
You are welcome.
I hope you find something to do with your friends without feeling left out just because of your illness.