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mysteryperson123
Mar 16, 2008, 08:02 AM
I am so unhappy all the time and I just don't know what to do with myself anymore. I only have one friend and I am so miserable. I get bullied at school and I am really miserable because I feel I can't do anything about it, I told the teacher and the teacher said it was a misunderstanding but I know it wasn't but I was new to the school and the teacher believed the bully and most of the time I get hardly any sleep because I always dread the mornings. My brother and sister are always being mean to me too. They are both younger than me but it is always 2 against 1 and my life just isn't fair! I have often tried to walk in front of cars and I constantly feel like I want to die. I am different to everyone else at school the girls are always girly girls the boys never play with girls and I am a tomboy I don't fit in. They are all into boyfriends and makeup and fancy clothes whilst I like dragons, animals and other differet stuff. I am so miserable and so alone. I spend most of my time on sites like askmehelpdesk asking questions about stuff and chatting to members. If they met me face to face they would hate me, everyone does.

SDRAWKCAB-SDRAWROF
Mar 16, 2008, 08:08 AM
Don't be so hard on yourself! You seem like a cool person :)
Just because you like different things to the other girls at school doesn't make you any less of a nice person.. in fact having other interests is wayy more interesting than talking constantly about boys and make-up and clothes! How old are you? And what year are you in at school? You'd be surprised... it's sometimes a lot easier to hang about with boys than it is with girls, maybe try and make a few guy friends?
Don't think that everyone hates you... and as for your brother and sister like you say.. they're younger than you, talk to your parents about their behaviour if its bothering you, because you shouldn't have to put up with that.
:)
Hope this helps

mysteryperson123
Mar 17, 2008, 09:37 AM
Thanks a lot, I am 11 years old in year six of a primary school, in my last school I had a friend called George, who was a boy, we never fell out. Me and George became friends when I took a stuffed gerbil into school and he took a stuffed Guinea pig into school, in year two. I moved a little while ago and I have been miserable ever since. No one has ever described me as (To use your exact words) ' cool person ' I have always been an outcast from the rest of the school, if you know what I mean. I am pretty simlar to my favorite animal, the wolf. I like staying close to my home. I hate moving. I am a lone wolf, I don't socialize well, I am ugly, fat, unsociable and everyone thinks I am weird (Or so my sister and brother say).

DMA
Mar 18, 2008, 02:27 PM
If everyone is telling you things like you are weird and ugly, and you listen to them, then you will start to believe them even if it is not true! Instead of the reality which is you are obviously an intelligent and unique individual - different is good!

You told a teacher you were being bullied and they did nothing to help you. Some teachers are useless like that! You must ask to speak to the headmaster or ask you parents to help you sort it out.

mysteryperson123
Mar 19, 2008, 12:34 AM
Thanks. My teacher is completely useless. I said I missed my old school and she said " Well there's nothing we can do about that" When I told her that the work was a million times too easy she replied "We can't make exeptions for one student". I did speak to the headmaster. My parent is trying to help but nothing has actually happened.