What is the best wording to use on my invitations to indicate the dinner party following our ceremony at a destination location is "non-host" or "self-pay"?

Thanks!

I don't know, but from what I am reading you should include a separate card for the reception and include a map if necessary.
Here are some links that might help and if not maybe give you some other ideas.

wording on invitation self pay reception - Google Search (http://www.google.com/search?ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&sourceid=navclient&gfns=1&q=wording+on+invitation+self+pay+reception)

You can send invitation cards (http://www.123greetings.com/invitations/) saying "Let's Party" then mentioning the venue and the cost as party entry fee or something like this.