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srs07navy
Feb 1, 2006, 06:00 PM
Hey You! Well I really like this guy and he asked my out a couple of days ago. I really do like him and would go out with him but for some reason I scared of getting hurt again.I think I still have feeling for my ex. In the past relationship my boyfriend cheated on me with this girl he goes to school with. He sayes he regrets doing it. Should I forgive him and give him another chance? I mean we were going out for almost 3 years.I have so many feelings for him and I love him with my heart but not sure if I can trust him again.What would you do?
Shelley

PrettyLady
Feb 1, 2006, 06:18 PM
Srso7navy, you should give the new guy a chance and forget about your ex boyfriend. Since you don't trust your ex, I don't think it's a good idea to get back with him.

DrJ
Feb 1, 2006, 06:32 PM
I agree... though it certainly doesn't apply to EVERYONE, a good rule of thumb is "once a cheater, always a cheater." Sure people can truly change and not ever do it again, but it is unlikely... especially when they are just a teenager.

It common to still have feelings for him and to wish that things didn't happen but they did. You're young... move on. Give this new guy a chance. Don't be afraid of getting hurt. Take chances... take risks... it's the only way to find what you want.

The important thing is this: Be able, at any moment, to sacrifice what you are for what you could become!