I contacted my high school sweetheart through one of those classmate sites. He responded, I responded back. Three days later we were talking over the phone. We talked about the what if's and could of's and should of's. He asked for pictures of high school. I sent the pictures and that was the last I heard from him. A reunion of a whole 3 weeks. He is single and I am single again but he is to wrapped up in his career to start a relationship. Now, I did not ask for a relationship however a friendship would have been nice. He mentioned he was not open to a relationship with me because I am divorced (12 years now) and I have my own family. He just turned 41 and I thought boy you need to put a move on it if you want your own family before you are to old to enjoy them. I do not think I said that though. Anyway, we covered a lot of ground and answered questions that took 22 years to hear the answers.

I can't seem to get him out of my thoughts or my heart. Sometimes I wonder if this is him saying "touche'". Help, how do I get him out of my system?

I can't tell you how to get him out of your system but you should just forget about it as you said he's to rapped up in his career and it wasn't very nice of him to say that he's not open to arelationship with you because your divorced WHY DOES THAT MATTER??
All that would matter is if you both get along great and he gets on great with your kids he's just being afool you shouldn't even have him in your head
He mustn't be avery nice person to say something like that then not even bother to keep intouch maybe he just wants the past to stay in the past

Forget him hun if you really want to find sum1,I no its hard to find sum1 when you've got kids but theirs a FREE FREE FREE dating site its called - plenty of fish.com I met myfella on their and he's great plus you don't have to go on their for dating you can just go on for emails and instant messagin that's why I went on their and I found myfella

Good luck

Plus it might take your mind off that fool